Tara: 'Your One-Stop Spot to Shop for Lots of New-Age and Occult Items.' Catchy. Giles: Think so? Tara: Uh huh. In a... hard to say sorta way.

'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Nov 19, 2020 10:49:20 am PST #7370 of 8208
Thrive to spite them

I keep telling myself it's one night and we aren't open until midnight like we have been.

The store hours are extended more to almost regular hours but for fulfillment we go in early and stay late.

I'm hoping after the holidays they reduce the hours again.


sj - Nov 19, 2020 11:04:50 am PST #7371 of 8208
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm glad you're getting good results, sj! (And a little sad how amazed we all are at decent health care).

Yes, when new doc was actually listening to me and being sympathetic, I wanted to cry. No one has been taking me seriously.


JenP - Nov 19, 2020 11:18:08 am PST #7372 of 8208

A good, compassionate doctor who recognizes that you have a brain even if it's not medically trained is worth her weight in gold. I'm glad you found someone, sj, and that the gabapentin worked so well for you.

askye, I mean, you're right, it's only one night, but I only ever schedule myself with shit like that when I was managing a store. That's crappy; I'm sorry.


sj - Nov 19, 2020 11:22:31 am PST #7373 of 8208
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Finding a doctor who realizes you have a brain when you're physically disabled is extra hard in my experience. The Urgent Care doc was convinced I didn't have a uti because the dip test came back negative. Well my dip tests almost always come back negative, but do a culture for a couple days and guess what..


Dana - Nov 19, 2020 12:04:44 pm PST #7374 of 8208
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

It's so crazy-making when doctors won't believe you know your own body. This has happened before. Yes, the same thing. Yes, in the same way. Yes, even though you have a medical degree.


JenP - Nov 19, 2020 12:46:26 pm PST #7375 of 8208

Preach it, sisters.


sj - Nov 19, 2020 1:24:44 pm PST #7376 of 8208
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

The ER doc did not believe me when I said I could only raise my arm when lying flat on my back. He said it wasn’t possible and made me demonstrate several times.


Dana - Nov 19, 2020 2:06:26 pm PST #7377 of 8208
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Fuck that guy.


Laura - Nov 19, 2020 2:22:12 pm PST #7378 of 8208
Our wings are not tired.

I listen to doctors pretty frequently because of work and my favorite doctors are the ones who say things like 'you know what is normal for you better than I do' or will give flexible instructions on meds like 'if you feel like X take a full dose, and if you feel like Y only take the morning dose'. Some of them really understand that we have a lot more experience with our bodies than they do, others, not so much.


Volans - Nov 19, 2020 2:45:17 pm PST #7379 of 8208
move out and draw fire

sj, SO glad you've found a good doctor.

I was on Wellbutrin for a few months post-partum, because it isn't prone to transferring via breastfeeding...but it also did exactly nothing for my depression, so I went back to Zoloft and shifted to formula (it's been 15 years and the kid doesn't seem to have suffered).