That captures the feeling nicely. Thank you. :)

Congratulations on your tenacity but sigh on the dustcatcher.

I'm just now getting around to looking at the online bra sites I asked people to recommend, and got completely defeated on the very first one when it explained that I needed to actually put a bra on before measuring myself. That is too much work to do before second coffee.

Amen JZ.

Working from home for almost 7 years now has ruined me on the whole concept of wearing a bra. I deeply resent every time I have to put one on. And now that Tim's nephew is overhauling our backyard for us, I feel obligated to wear a bra when he's over here, and it drive me bonkers.

Working from home for almost 7 years now has ruined me on the whole concept of wearing a bra.

Bras are not really optional for me; even now that I'm not especially busty, I'm incredibly droopy, which ruins the line of pretty much every item of clothing I actually like and feel good and cute in. My girls require some infrastructure.

JZ, start here [link]

Best guide, no bra required!

oh god.. matthew's mom asks "how would you feel if I brought home a kitten or two"

Me: ?!?!?! We have 3 cats that barely get along and we can barely keep up with that and we want.. more?

She wants outdoor cats to kill the snakes and rodents that are infesting.. something.. and something like that. I pointed out we can't just bring home a kitten (from his sisters) and put them outside, they need- shots, they need to stay in side for a bit to acclimate, and they need to get spayed/neutered. And they need shelter. And Penny goes outside so they need to get used to Penny.

Plus there are like 3 tom cats roaming around.

I told her if we rehomed Scrappy to an only cat home then another cat makes sense.

she's also asked me about half a dozen times when I'm going to start roasing the chicken for dinner.. not yet, it's for evening meal and like it's not evening. It doesn't take all day to cook a chicken.

Could you start feeding and t/n/r a tomcat or two and have them be outside cats?

I think they technically belong to the neighbors, but I suppose we could start feeding them.

The other neighbor's bunny has escaped into our yard again and seems to be hiding out in the shed. So far her owner (who wasn't her original owner but took her in from a neice or someone) hasn't been too desperate to find her. I'm trying to figure out if it's ok to get the bunny to a rescue.Matthew is trying to get his sister to bring over a live animal trap so we can catch the bunny easier. I'm not sure how we are going to trick her into going into the trap since she isn't interested in anything but grass to eat.

Will a bunny rescue come and get the bunny? Sounds like the neighbor wouldn't mind too much if the bunny mysteriously disappeared. "Sorry, it was in our yard and then it was just gone, don't know where it went..."