Well some friends of Buffy played a funny joke and they took her stuff and now she wants us to help get it back from her friends who sleep all day and have no tans.

Xander ,'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


JZ - May 25, 2020 5:36:23 am PDT #7020 of 8208
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Congratulations on your tenacity but sigh on the dustcatcher.

I'm just now getting around to looking at the online bra sites I asked people to recommend, and got completely defeated on the very first one when it explained that I needed to actually put a bra on before measuring myself. That is too much work to do before second coffee.


Topic!Cindy - May 25, 2020 7:10:24 am PDT #7021 of 8208
What is even happening?

Amen JZ.


Steph L. - May 25, 2020 7:16:56 am PDT #7022 of 8208
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Working from home for almost 7 years now has ruined me on the whole concept of wearing a bra. I deeply resent every time I have to put one on. And now that Tim's nephew is overhauling our backyard for us, I feel obligated to wear a bra when he's over here, and it drive me bonkers.


JZ - May 25, 2020 8:17:36 am PDT #7023 of 8208
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Working from home for almost 7 years now has ruined me on the whole concept of wearing a bra.

Bras are not really optional for me; even now that I'm not especially busty, I'm incredibly droopy, which ruins the line of pretty much every item of clothing I actually like and feel good and cute in. My girls require some infrastructure.


P.M. Marc - May 25, 2020 8:49:17 am PDT #7024 of 8208
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

JZ, start here [link]

Best guide, no bra required!


askye - May 25, 2020 8:54:46 am PDT #7025 of 8208
Thrive to spite them

oh god.. matthew's mom asks "how would you feel if I brought home a kitten or two"

Me: ?!?!?! We have 3 cats that barely get along and we can barely keep up with that and we want.. more?

She wants outdoor cats to kill the snakes and rodents that are infesting.. something.. and something like that. I pointed out we can't just bring home a kitten (from his sisters) and put them outside, they need- shots, they need to stay in side for a bit to acclimate, and they need to get spayed/neutered. And they need shelter. And Penny goes outside so they need to get used to Penny.

Plus there are like 3 tom cats roaming around.

I told her if we rehomed Scrappy to an only cat home then another cat makes sense.

she's also asked me about half a dozen times when I'm going to start roasing the chicken for dinner.. not yet, it's for evening meal and like it's not evening. It doesn't take all day to cook a chicken.


Trudy Booth - May 25, 2020 3:07:10 pm PDT #7026 of 8208
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Could you start feeding and t/n/r a tomcat or two and have them be outside cats?


askye - May 25, 2020 4:20:00 pm PDT #7027 of 8208
Thrive to spite them

I think they technically belong to the neighbors, but I suppose we could start feeding them.

The other neighbor's bunny has escaped into our yard again and seems to be hiding out in the shed. So far her owner (who wasn't her original owner but took her in from a neice or someone) hasn't been too desperate to find her. I'm trying to figure out if it's ok to get the bunny to a rescue.Matthew is trying to get his sister to bring over a live animal trap so we can catch the bunny easier. I'm not sure how we are going to trick her into going into the trap since she isn't interested in anything but grass to eat.


Zenkitty - May 28, 2020 7:34:01 am PDT #7028 of 8208
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Will a bunny rescue come and get the bunny? Sounds like the neighbor wouldn't mind too much if the bunny mysteriously disappeared. "Sorry, it was in our yard and then it was just gone, don't know where it went..."


askye - May 28, 2020 11:13:10 am PDT #7029 of 8208
Thrive to spite them

Well the bunny is still..outside doing things. The bunny rescue won't come and catch it, we have to catch it. Or someone does.

And I'm going to be honest it was hard enough wrangling everyone to get them to catch the rabbit the first time. I'm not really sure I want to deal with that again. Plus I can really only help with bunny wrangling on my day off and I've been trying to get other stuff done.

I feel slightly bad for not doing more to get the bunny to a rescue but on the other hand I have other stuff. Like trying to get the new ac window unit installed Shouldn't take time but it means getting help and doing it when it's not raining and that's.. not been easy to coordinate.