Teppy, when a family member of ours went into rehab, they were admitted with the understanding that they would be there for at least 30 days. I am perplexed. Is his wife back, and does she know what's been happening? (Is he at least bruised?!?)
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amyparker - Nov 19, 2019 7:49:18 am PST #6638 of 8213
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.
Steph L. - Nov 19, 2019 7:54:43 am PST #6639 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism
Is his wife back, and does she know what's been happening?
She is back, and she knows what's happening. We had a good conversation on Sunday.
(Is he at least bruised?!?)
I didn't ask, but I feel like he has to be, right?
Teppy, when a family member of ours went into rehab, they were admitted with the understanding that they would be there for at least 30 days. I am perplexed.
Yeah, I'm not super clear on what kind of a facility it is. I don't want to bombard him with a ton of questions until he's gotten some stability behind him.
amyparker - Nov 19, 2019 8:00:04 am PST #6640 of 8213
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.
It sounds as if whoever did the evaluation decided that he was stable enough and had enough support to go home and do the work in familiar surroundings; unless he goes into crisis again, best to check in and otherwise let him get on. How are you doing?
Steph L. - Nov 19, 2019 8:06:08 am PST #6641 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism
How are you doing?
Relieved he's through the immediate crisis stage, for sure. Incandescently angry at my father (I posted about that in Natter, since I can't seem to confine my relapse posts to one thread). Really, really exhausted.
-t - Nov 19, 2019 8:24:44 am PST #6642 of 8213
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
In my experience, the 28-day in patient rehab thing is a voluntary option and "rehab" is also used to describe the relatively short period of time that is just for physical recovery (although 1 day seems short for even that). I remember when my brother was in patient the terms they used to just mean various locations in the facility were very confusing to those of us who weren't there to see what they were talking about. Like "of course he's in recovery, that's why he's here, but where is he?" when "Recovery" was a particular set of rooms. Could be something similar going on.
Steph L. - Nov 19, 2019 10:10:33 am PST #6643 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism
How are you doing?
Relieved he's through the immediate crisis stage, for sure. Incandescently angry at my father (I posted about that in Natter, since I can't seem to confine my relapse posts to one thread). Really, really exhausted.
Update: I cannot BELIEVE how exhausted I am right now. (Worth noting that I also did a 5K Saturday in temps that were below 40 degrees [but above freezing], and I'm pretty sure that really took it out of me, too.)
The Elvis Costello concert is tonight, and I am SO glad that it's a we-are-middle-aged-people-who-are-not-going-to-stand-and-dance concert. I can't WAIT to see him, because I've never seen him live (plus flea and Mr. flea are coming [but unfortunately Hil can't make it, damn it]), but I really really need to sit.
amyparker - Nov 19, 2019 11:09:04 am PST #6644 of 8213
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.
-t, now that I let myself remember (it was a tough time), this wasn't exactly a voluntary option: happened when the family member was residing outside the US, and the choices were at least 30 days in hospital rehab or a holding cell until the airport opened for a flight back to the US, with a ten-year ban on reentry. Given that their spouse and child wouldn't have been able to follow easily . . . .
Teppy, of course you're exhausted! The 5k on top of everything else, it's good you're upright. I am so jealous of the concert and hope you have a fantastic time.
DavidS - Nov 19, 2019 11:13:28 am PST #6645 of 8213
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The Elvis Costello concert is tonight
I saw EC play on his Spike tour. Great show - obviously he's got an incredible songbook that he can dip into, but also he always has fantastic musicians and knows how to engage with the audience. You're going to love it.
amyparker - Nov 19, 2019 11:48:20 am PST #6646 of 8213
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.
This is the right thread to hiss at the Daystar - the windows in this room face south, and the sun's come out. Ouch! Blinds are down now.
Zenkitty - Nov 19, 2019 2:18:01 pm PST #6647 of 8213
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
My sweet kitty Leo passed away today. I thought I would be able to be all stoic, but hell no, I cried and cried. The vet was really kind. It's strange, I guess, that of all the many pets I've had, I've never had to euthanize one before. I know he was dying and miserable and it was the right thing to do but it was so hard. My pretty kitty boy.
The other two haven't realized yet that he isn't coming back. The Gray Cat will miss him; they were snuggle buddies. Percy won't; they never got along. I will miss him a lot.
Steph, I'm glad your extraordinarily hard-headed brother is doing well.