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-t - May 22, 2019 10:33:13 am PDT #5909 of 8216
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Where are you, Zen, Virginia? Here's a possible resource: [link] If there's a nearish univversity you might check for Master Gardener and Ag programs, they often have free stuff available to the community - worms, plants, information, etc. There's a nonprofit in my county that has been transforming people's yards as sort of showcases of sustainable practices, might be something like that near you, too. Ours is called Sustainable Solano if that helps at all.


Connie Neil - May 22, 2019 10:34:41 am PDT #5910 of 8216
brillig

It's a darned shame the neighbors and the city object to the avant garde landscape style "urban feral meadow".


Jessica - May 22, 2019 10:37:11 am PDT #5911 of 8216
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Missouri Botanical Garden has the BEST plant finder website - [link]

Plan It Wild is a great resource for native plant gardening - [link]

I would recommend finding a local nursery rather than a big box store with a garden center - Home Depot in particular has a strong bias towards colorful annuals vs native pollinators.

For ornamental grasses, I like carex and bluestem. For shrubs, New Jersey Tea and Chokeberry require basically zero maintenance. Foamflower is nice, and moderately shade-tolerant.

If you're looking to replace your ENTIRE lawn, the easiest thing to do would be to cover it right now in black plastic, put stakes in so it won't blow away, and then wait until September to plant your new shrubs and grasses. The plastic will kill the grass that's there now so in the fall you'll have a blank canvass to start from.


Jessica - May 22, 2019 10:41:18 am PDT #5912 of 8216
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

If you don't want to do the entire lawn at once, Plan it Wild also sells these fantastic kits that will cover 9 square feet at a time: [link]


Zenkitty - May 22, 2019 10:49:40 am PDT #5913 of 8216
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

"urban feral meadow"

That would be my preferred style.

-t, that's also a great idea. University of Virginia is right here and probably has an Ag program.

Jessica, I'm not replacing the whole lawn at once, it's more than I can handle. These are great ideas, thank you! Plan It Wild is exactly what I was looking for.


Katerina Bee - May 22, 2019 7:52:54 pm PDT #5914 of 8216
Herding cats for fun

The nice thing about planting natives is their drought resistance, at least here in California. The lady showing me her yard full of native landscaping was really happy about not having to water it.


WindSparrow - May 22, 2019 8:20:43 pm PDT #5915 of 8216
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

We are actively encouraging white violets to take over as much of our lawn as possible. they are native to Minnesota and we spend less time mowing.


Jessica - May 23, 2019 5:55:24 am PDT #5916 of 8216
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I've become a little obsessed with pollinator pathways lately, so I'm planting native pollinator "islands" in the back yard around the borders, and will tackle the front next year. In the short term I'm just letting the clover take over but my end goal is native part-shade meadow.


-t - May 23, 2019 6:18:01 am PDT #5917 of 8216
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's wonderful! My "lawn" is all just whatever - maybe a previous owner planted grass but it's just as likely it all invaded from the neighbors along with the salsify and other unidentified greenery. Unfortunately the natives are not winning, I'm gonna have to manage it more actively to get something reasonable out there. It's tricky, because xeriscaping and low-water requirements are so much the focus around here, but I live close to a marsh and have a high water table so those plants do not do well in my yard. I do have good insect and bird habitat, though.


Glamcookie - May 23, 2019 6:25:29 am PDT #5918 of 8216
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

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