Don't belong. Dangerous, like you. Can't be controlled. Can't be trusted. Everyone could just go on without me and not have to worry. People could be what they wanted to be. Could be with the people they wanted. Live simple. No secrets.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sue - Feb 06, 2019 12:58:28 am PST #5217 of 8216
hip deep in pie

I'm so sorry for your loss, Emily.


Laura - Feb 06, 2019 3:40:07 am PST #5218 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.

I'm sorry, Emily. I've enjoyed reading about your dad and it was lovely to follow your reports of spending time with him these past few years. Wish I had advice on the probate or job situation, but all I have is loving ~ma for this most difficult life transition.

"Keto" is a diet developed to treat a very severe, and relatively rare, form of epilepsy. The name and ideas of what the diet entails have been taken over and corrupted by the diet industry.

100% The social media Keto stuff is really frustrating. I had researched nutrition factors after I had the seizure 5 years ago. I never had another one, but the articles stuck in my mind. The reasons for my choice didn't have to do with the seizure history, but the diabetes history. I do see a Nutritionist monthly and she is thrilled with my numbers. Mostly her big focus is tons of water and organic foods. She makes me track all my food so she can make sure I am getting a good nutrient balance. I expect once my sugar and weight numbers are within good ranges that I will start to add back more carby foods. I've ended up skipping breakfast and just eating lunch and dinner and a couple snacks a day because breakfast without oatmeal and fruit is just sad for me. Not that big a fan of eggs every day; that gets old fast.

Nice validation from the new agent, Hil. It will be very helpful to have her to research your specific questions. And having a solid list of what you want is very helpful for her. It will be so nice to be away from the annoyingly intrusive landlord.


lisah - Feb 06, 2019 4:12:03 am PST #5219 of 8216
Punishingly Intricate

That's awesome you're working with a nutritionist, Laura, and getting good results!


Laura - Feb 06, 2019 4:36:05 am PST #5220 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.

Yes, I feel more confidence with the nutritionist. I'm 65 this month and don't feel it would responsible to make such a radical diet change without professional monitoring. I will see my PCP probably in May. Well, I see him all the dang time working on their systems, but for the whole physical thing.


Deena - Feb 06, 2019 7:43:05 am PST #5221 of 8216
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Thanks Lisah and everyone else. I did think I should ask my PCP first, so I guess I will. She's very straightforward, so I trust her to steer me right.


Emily - Feb 06, 2019 9:52:38 am PST #5222 of 8216
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Katerina, I would love to work with a professional, if they would ever answer my emails! Feh.


Karl - Feb 06, 2019 12:06:28 pm PST #5223 of 8216
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Emily, it's lovely to see your pixels, even if I'm very sad about the reason for it.


Deena - Feb 06, 2019 1:29:10 pm PST #5224 of 8216
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Emily, I'm sorry for your loss. He sounds like a really interesting man.


Katerina Bee - Feb 06, 2019 6:58:27 pm PST #5225 of 8216
Herding cats for fun

Emily, that has sadly been my experience trying to interface with the powers that be. Nobody ever replies.

I say, do not give up. Keep asking until you find some helpful answers. Wave money around if you have to. Information will be worth the effort you put into it.

I might ask how you did when I have to deal with settling an estate.

Hugs and kisses, since I am soooo much older than you are.


Dana - Feb 07, 2019 6:08:04 am PST #5226 of 8216
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I miss my fancy colored hair, so I've been looking at temporary home coloring stuff, emphasis on the temporary. Like, I'd be fine with a spray or something if it doesn't come off on anything it touches. What do people like?