Marco: Do we look reasonable to you? Mal: Well. Looks can be deceiving. Jayne: Not as deceiving as a low down dirty... deceiver.

'Out Of Gas'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - Jan 29, 2019 12:18:11 pm PST #5135 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm pretty careful about what I post publicly, but I figured that no dates, and posted within a closed family group, would be fine.


Hil R. - Jan 29, 2019 12:24:43 pm PST #5136 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'd also asked if anyone had any information to add to the tree (didn't ask anyone specifically, just a general "anyone,") and she has informed me that she WILL NOT be telling me any information about her children and grandchildren. (All of that information is easily available, but if she's getting like this, then I'm not going to add it.)


lisah - Jan 29, 2019 12:34:18 pm PST #5137 of 8216
Punishingly Intricate

Did you start the group, Hil? If so, boot her!


Hil R. - Jan 29, 2019 12:35:23 pm PST #5138 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

She's not in the group. Another cousin sent it to her.


Karl - Jan 29, 2019 1:24:57 pm PST #5139 of 8216
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Oooof. I'm sorry, Hil -- that just sucks.


Hil R. - Jan 29, 2019 4:06:42 pm PST #5140 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

This side of the family is a ton of people -- my great-grandmother was the third of 12 children in her family, and nine of those kids had kids of their own, so just by the time you get to my mom's generation, it's several dozen people -- so I figured that posting a chart to keep track of who was who might be useful.


Laura - Jan 29, 2019 4:16:15 pm PST #5141 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.

It is useful, Hil. She is just ridiculous. People don't get that a locked post isn't available to the world at large.


Hil R. - Jan 29, 2019 5:30:15 pm PST #5142 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I just don't even get what she thinks that anyone would do with that information.


Katerina Bee - Jan 29, 2019 7:09:22 pm PST #5143 of 8216
Herding cats for fun

Why not fill out her family tree anyway and put in some stupid, obvious mistakes, like double the number of children and add a few random spouses. Then forward for her input and claim it's all public record.

Just if you want to wave that red flag at the angry bull, that is.


Hil R. - Jan 29, 2019 7:16:04 pm PST #5144 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I just checked, and found that she's on at least three other public trees on various genealogy websites. (Or, at least, her parents are, plus two children -- it doesn't show names for living people.)