quester, I'm so sorry. That's really painful. The only way I've dealt with what's left of my bio-fam being a huge disappointment is by finding and nurturing created families elsewhere. But that's never a perfect solution.

Glad things are getting easier, Zen.

Yay for seeing Hedwig, sj! My default ringtone is a guitar riff from "Sugar Daddy," and has been for years.

Oh, I forgot to post this and I think it will be of interest to a few Bitches denizens. We had dinner with a some old friends this week. One of them has done some directing on Fargo. First, he said Noah Hawley is freaking genius, but also manages to be a good person to work for. Second, Carrie Coon is just as wonderful and warm and level-headed as you think she might be. Third, and this surprised him, Ewan McGregor is just a guy and not at all a movie star. Serious about his work, but offscreen he is a nice dude who likes to talk about his kids and motorcycles and stuff. No temperament or vanity, lots of charm and as interested in hanging with the crew as he is in the "talent." He said "After five minutes of talking to him, you even forget how handsome he is."

I'm thinking about hiring a professional organizer to help me get my apartment presentable. Between physical issues with picking stuff up, and my complete lack of any idea of how to make organization work, my apartment has been a mess for way too long. My mom hired someone to help with her house, and she thought it was really useful. (Though, considering that my old bedroom seems to have become the overflow storage room again, I'm not totally sure how much it helped, but it at least gave her a sense of how things should be organized.) And I also need some help just figuring out where to put stuff, since my apartment doesn't have much storage space, and what it does have is often in weird inaccessible places.

Thanks for the love you guys. You are my Tribe.

Oh, I forgot to post this and I think it will be of interest to a few Bitches denizens. We had dinner with a some old friends this week. One of them has done some directing on Fargo. First, he said Noah Hawley is freaking genius, but also manages to be a good person to work for. Second, Carrie Coon is just as wonderful and warm and level-headed as you think she might be. Third, and this surprised him, Ewan McGregor is just a guy and not at all a movie star. Serious about his work, but offscreen he is a nice dude who likes to talk about his kids and motorcycles and stuff. No temperament or vanity, lots of charm and as interested in hanging with the crew as he is in the "talent." He said "After five minutes of talking to him, you even forget how handsome he is."

So cool! I'm loving Fargo a lot. And coincidentally I am staying at the exact motel in Pasadena that Carrie Coons' character did when she went to L.A.

Thanks scrappy! The news from the Fargo set makes it even more enjoyable to catch up on he backlog I've got DVR'd.

I had a suspicion about Ewan McGregor being a nice guy since I watched "Long Way Round". The Siberian highway system did not ruin his fu.

We're at Hedwig! And they upgraded our seats because there is no elevator.

Enjoy, sj!

My DH reserved WW Tixs from the wrong night, so we were unable to see it last night. He was mortified, but we're both stressed out over the move. Luckily, the friends we were with were completely cool about it. We had a nice dinner beforehand and will use the vouchers we got to go NEXT week. He's off to Spain until Thursday for a car launch.

I'm sorry about the mixup, Scrappy, but at least you'll get to see it next week.

Can you point me to where you told us about the new house? I've missed it, and can't seem to find it. Want to drool in envy and celebrate with you guys.