All right, yes, date and shop and hang out and go to school and save the world from unspeakable demons. You know, I wanna do girlie stuff!

Buffy ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


quester - May 29, 2017 7:06:27 pm PDT #411 of 8185
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Timelies.

Haven't been around enough. but can't sleep and need to sleep so I took additional meds, waiting for them to work.

had a sudden attack of the lonleys and why-am-I-here's.

Holiday weekend spent alone. no invitations from family who live in town. I'm treated like a live-far-away and only can see twice-a-year relative. seeing the pictures of family having fun that I'm never invited to just hits like a gut-punch sometimes.

sorry for the pity-party. just needed to say it out loud, at least write it out.


WindSparrow - May 29, 2017 7:13:33 pm PDT #412 of 8185
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

That would bug me, too, quester.


Zenkitty - May 29, 2017 7:39:10 pm PDT #413 of 8185
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Geez, quester, that's not a pity party. That's rotten of them to do that.


Katerina Bee - May 29, 2017 7:48:24 pm PDT #414 of 8185
Herding cats for fun

Such relatives as these are unfathomably cruel.


quester - May 30, 2017 2:57:29 am PDT #415 of 8185
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

I know they are there if I'm "in need". my brother and sister came to the emergency room when I was hospitalized a couple of years ago, but then there was no follow up once I was out.

I just don't get what it is about me that they don't want around.


WindSparrow - May 30, 2017 3:49:31 am PDT #416 of 8185
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Oh, precious quester, I'm sorry your siblings do value you the way they should.


Trudy Booth - May 30, 2017 6:09:58 am PDT #417 of 8185
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I'd say the damage is theirs, Quester.


sj - May 30, 2017 6:12:26 am PDT #418 of 8185
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Quester, that is sucky and totally not your fault.

Hi, Trudy!

A half hour ago I looked at the clock convinced it was 11:30 and it was only 10:30. TCG's first day back at work after a long weekend is always such a long day.


Katerina Bee - May 30, 2017 6:25:34 am PDT #419 of 8185
Herding cats for fun

I don't know what to say, except that I am with Quester in the Family Ignoring You boat.

In my case religion is a big reason. I am a Bad Influence even when I stay home keeping off Facebook with my mouth shut. They know I Might Say Something... Might hurt the children by being myself.

I've decided selfishness and narcissism drives their choices and it's never been about me.

I do get lonely, even though I've got used to my exclusion.


Scrappy - May 30, 2017 7:40:25 am PDT #420 of 8185
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Quester, have you ever straight out told them that you'd like to be included more? They may not know. Of course, they may know and just be jerks. But I find it's always best not to assume motive, even with those one is closest to.