Giles: Helping out with the dishes makes me feel useful. Dawn: Wanna clean out the garage with us Saturday? You could feel indispensable.

'Dirty Girls'


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Zenkitty - Feb 12, 2018 3:47:22 pm PST #3319 of 8218
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

At first I hated my progressive lenses, Laura, but one day I put them on and magically I could see! Hope it works that way with you too!

Don't we have a theater costume person or two among us? Could you use some vintage ladies' gloves?


Laura - Feb 12, 2018 4:31:19 pm PST #3320 of 8218
Our wings are not tired.

Yes, they say it is the same brain training process as the monovision contacts. I've worn them all day although I really really wanted to go back to my 3 pair method. Hurry up brain!


sj - Feb 13, 2018 11:04:00 am PST #3321 of 8218
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Having a Wholefoods nearby is going to be dangerous. I swear I only needed one thing...


-t - Feb 14, 2018 6:23:43 am PST #3322 of 8218
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I just picked up my first progressives last night, Laura, so my brain is on the same adjustment. Weird so far. I have to learn not to look over my glasses when I want to read for one thing...


Laura - Feb 14, 2018 7:18:26 am PST #3323 of 8218
Our wings are not tired.

So far not pleased. I have a lot of double vision, but it could be because I read a lot this morning. I am having a lazy day, doing only what I have to for work and trying to finish my book. The Nook battery died! It was 100% this morning, but on day mode it drained quickly. It might be time to get another.

But the eyes are very unhappy. I should go to the eye doctor, it is only a couple minutes away. But that would mean showering and dressing.


Steph L. - Feb 14, 2018 7:38:05 am PST #3324 of 8218
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I don't love my progressives, which I got 2 years ago. I still look over/take off my glasses to read, so what's the point? I mean, it's possible that the ophthalmologist got my measurements wrong, and I'll mention that at my next appointment. But based on this pair of progressives, I don't see the point. If I'm going to keep looking over my glasses to read, I might as well save the expense of the progressives.


-t - Feb 14, 2018 7:52:35 am PST #3325 of 8218
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

When they handed me a thing to try reading yesterday and I could just read it I was pretty amazed. It's just the habit of looking over my glasses to read I need to get rid of, I think. I might still need my "computer distance" glasses for working, though. About to go into a meeting, should be a good test of that whole taking notes while being able to see the projection screen concept...


Laura - Feb 14, 2018 7:55:48 am PST #3326 of 8218
Our wings are not tired.

I'm farsighted, so seeing anything close without some kind of glasses isn't an option. Part of this could be allergies too. Seems this year I want to not like spring pollen again.


WindSparrow - Feb 14, 2018 11:13:52 am PST #3327 of 8218
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Did you put the new glasses on at the eye place and wear them home, or did they advise you to stay in the old glasses for the day then put on the new ones in the morning after the night's sleep? That was a trick I learned a couple prescriptions ago. It made the transition less headachy.


-t - Feb 14, 2018 12:24:55 pm PST #3328 of 8218
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

They asked if I wanted to wear the new ones home or "start fresh" and I opted for the second. I tend to get depth perception weirdness with new glasses and was kind of afraid to drive until I had some idea what to expect.

Double vision would be very off-putting. Do not like.