You know, it's funny. We went to war never looking to come back, but it's the real world I couldn't survive.

Tracy ,'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


-t - Jan 31, 2018 9:33:56 am PST #3176 of 8216
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

They're usually shotgun doubles in NO. The idea is that you could aim a shotgun through the front door and shoot it out the back door because all the inner doorways line up. I liked the one I lived in, although I only shared it with DH, would have been a little trickier with a separate bedroom sort of roommate.

I hope next weekend is uneventful and costs you nothing out of the ordinary, sj. Good luck getting some rest.


Fred Pete - Jan 31, 2018 10:39:36 am PST #3177 of 8216
Ann, that's a ferret.

I lived in a shotgun double in NO with a separate bedroom sort of roommate one year. I had to go through roommate's room (or go outside) to get from my bedroom to the kitchen, and he had the same options to get from his bedroom to the bathroom.

I think I had the better of that deal.


sj - Jan 31, 2018 10:52:09 am PST #3178 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

On the positive side I guess a stomach flu is a good way to lose 4 lbs in a week.


-t - Jan 31, 2018 11:05:10 am PST #3179 of 8216
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I wouldn't call it good, sj. But if that works as a bright side, embrace it.


sj - Jan 31, 2018 11:58:09 am PST #3180 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, -t. I forgot to use my sarcasm font. Although part of me would like to go to my doctor for a weigh in, just so she will get off my back for a bit.


-t - Jan 31, 2018 12:05:43 pm PST #3181 of 8216
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I hear you on that.


juliana - Jan 31, 2018 12:26:34 pm PST #3182 of 8216
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I hope you feel better soon, sj.

Peanut and I both recently had doctor visits, and I told her pediatrician that I didn't want to have her weighed any more. They were so unfazed and respectful that I told my doctor I didn't want to be weighed any more, and the nurse checking me in said, "Of course! You always have that option." I was amazed (and kind of pissed that's not the default). It just felt so... liberating, almost.


-t - Jan 31, 2018 12:49:56 pm PST #3183 of 8216
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Wow, juliana, good for you!


sj - Jan 31, 2018 1:01:25 pm PST #3184 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I chose not to be weighed last time, and there was a big "refused to be weighed" on my chart when I looked at the notes later. Which somehow seemed worse. I know I need to lose weight for various reasons, but I don't have the spoons to deal with it right now.


smonster - Jan 31, 2018 3:30:25 pm PST #3185 of 8216
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

It is a shotgun. She has the pass through bedroom and I have the two rooms in the back. We have opposite schedules and she's a super heavy sleeper. I can enter from the back if I want to but don't have to.