Sometimes when I'm sitting in class... You know, I'm not thinking about class, 'cause that would never happen. I think about kissing you. And it's like everything stops. It's like, it's like freeze frame. Willow kissage.

Oz ,'First Date'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Nov 08, 2017 1:00:13 pm PST #2568 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I just get the homicidal with my PMS and lately, extra pain.


meara - Nov 08, 2017 2:56:05 pm PST #2569 of 8216

My traveling companion has pms I think...but I had it before her...we've also been traveling ten days so about ready to kill each other. Our communication styles are not the sae


Nora Deirdre - Nov 08, 2017 5:08:13 pm PST #2570 of 8216
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

ugh, Tom is having a shitty time at work, I just got back from shittiness with my parents, I've had a headache all day, and we're both in shitty moods. I hate it when we're both in that super negative headspace. He's at writing class tonight, so he'll be anxious and tense when he comes home and I just feel like I fail at human communication (a week with my family will do that) and UGH.

Sorry, I know this doesn't make a whole lot of sense but I needed to get it out of my head.

I just feel like the worst (again, a fun thing from quality time with my parents) and Tom always feels like the worst (which breaks my heart, because he's the best) and we work hard to not bring our inherited dysfunction into our relationship but I feel like that's all broken down right now.

Ugh, I'm the worst.


Laura - Nov 08, 2017 5:15:56 pm PST #2571 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.

I hate it when we're both in that super negative headspace.

Super Ugh, that is the worst. That whole partnership thing where one person has to step up and be the positive one when both are in that other place. I hates it.


sj - Nov 08, 2017 5:20:31 pm PST #2572 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Nora, you and Tom are both the best. I'm sorry things are hard right now.


beth b - Nov 08, 2017 5:28:48 pm PST #2573 of 8216
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Step I hope you have the break from this

and Nora you are not the worst neither is tom

How do you take Ibuprfen and tylonel together...DH is in some mouth pain for a tooth extraction that has been difficult - and I think th ecombo might be easier on his stomach


-t - Nov 08, 2017 5:47:39 pm PST #2574 of 8216
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

{{{Nora}}} I'm sorry you both don't just have an easy time being awesome and knowing it. In a just world you would.


Jessica - Nov 09, 2017 4:17:22 am PST #2575 of 8216
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

That whole partnership thing where one person has to step up and be the positive one when both are in that other place. I hates it.

It really is the worst.


EpicTangent - Nov 09, 2017 7:35:51 am PST #2576 of 8216
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Neighbor came over for a minute last night to catch up. Her husband has been home from the hospital for a couple of weeks (after being in the hospital for almost 6 months) so I thought things are looking up. Nope, he's officially in hospice. She said I was welcome to come over & visit, but I just can't, it's too soon after Mom, which she understood. 2017 has been kind of an asshole of a year for our little cul-de-sac.

Nora, I hope you & Tom's brains start being nicer to you both.


SuziQ - Nov 09, 2017 8:01:08 am PST #2577 of 8216
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I'm sorry Epic. That bites. My aunt is in hospice right now in Germany. I didn't know. I had posted something yesterday in memory of my mom and my cousin contacted me because she realized I knew what they are going through right now. We talked for a while and I wish there was more I could do for that family.