I hate it when we're both in that super negative headspace.
Super Ugh, that is the worst. That whole partnership thing where one person has to step up and be the positive one when both are in that other place. I hates it.
Can't any one of your damn little Scooby club at least try to remember that I hate you all?
Spike ,'Get It Done'
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Laura - Nov 08, 2017 5:15:56 pm PST #2571 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.
sj - Nov 08, 2017 5:20:31 pm PST #2572 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Nora, you and Tom are both the best. I'm sorry things are hard right now.
beth b - Nov 08, 2017 5:28:48 pm PST #2573 of 8216
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Step I hope you have the break from this
and Nora you are not the worst neither is tom
How do you take Ibuprfen and tylonel together...DH is in some mouth pain for a tooth extraction that has been difficult - and I think th ecombo might be easier on his stomach
-t - Nov 08, 2017 5:47:39 pm PST #2574 of 8216
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
{{{Nora}}} I'm sorry you both don't just have an easy time being awesome and knowing it. In a just world you would.
Jessica - Nov 09, 2017 4:17:22 am PST #2575 of 8216
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
That whole partnership thing where one person has to step up and be the positive one when both are in that other place. I hates it.
It really is the worst.
EpicTangent - Nov 09, 2017 7:35:51 am PST #2576 of 8216
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
Neighbor came over for a minute last night to catch up. Her husband has been home from the hospital for a couple of weeks (after being in the hospital for almost 6 months) so I thought things are looking up. Nope, he's officially in hospice. She said I was welcome to come over & visit, but I just can't, it's too soon after Mom, which she understood. 2017 has been kind of an asshole of a year for our little cul-de-sac.
Nora, I hope you & Tom's brains start being nicer to you both.
SuziQ - Nov 09, 2017 8:01:08 am PST #2577 of 8216
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
I'm sorry Epic. That bites. My aunt is in hospice right now in Germany. I didn't know. I had posted something yesterday in memory of my mom and my cousin contacted me because she realized I knew what they are going through right now. We talked for a while and I wish there was more I could do for that family.
Atropa - Nov 09, 2017 8:54:27 am PST #2578 of 8216
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
That whole partnership thing where one person has to step up and be the positive one when both are in that other place. I hates it.
I know those feels. I know those feels so well. But Nora, you and Tom are both the best. Please remember that.
Epic, I'm so sorry.
Atropa - Nov 09, 2017 8:56:45 am PST #2579 of 8216
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Count Chocula cereal: Pete's alarm went off at 4:30 this morning, because he was going to the airport. (He's one of the artist guests at a M:tG event in Atlanta this weekend.) Afterward, my brain decided to give me lots of slasher horror movie -themed nightmares, and then my neighbors started construction work at 7:30. Not cool, brain and neighbors!
Steph L. - Nov 09, 2017 8:58:17 am PST #2580 of 8216
I look more rad than Lutheranism
That whole partnership thing where one person has to step up and be the positive one when both are in that other place. I hates it.
I know those feels. I know those feels so well. But Nora, you and Tom are both the best. Please remember that.
I agree with Jilli on both front: I married a dude with depression, so we've known that there will be times when both of us are in a lousy headspace. And sometimes that means we eat cookies of self-pity and watch TV, but sometimes one of us rallies and steps up to be the positive one. It sort of depends on the severity of the depression.
And yes, Nora, you and Tom ARE both the best. Even when you don't feel like it.