Ugh Javacat, that sounds miserable. I hope you get some relief.
And yay Laura on happier, healthier eating. Even more than weight, healthy eating makes such a difference for me in terms of how I feel.
Nothing worse than a monster who thinks he's right with God.
Mal ,'Heart Of Gold'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Burrell - Nov 08, 2017 7:41:32 am PST #2564 of 8216
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Laura - Nov 08, 2017 7:50:26 am PST #2565 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.
I can kind of see both sides.
Absolutely, that is the hardest part. I know that son is depressed, at times severely, but I have done all I can do. I keep coming back to my mother's wise words. "Laura, you can't want for him." Until he wants more from life nothing will change.
smonster - Nov 08, 2017 8:51:47 am PST #2566 of 8216
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I'm sorry it's so hard, Laura.
I'm in the euphoric/hypomanic phase of PMS, which means that later today or tomorrow a switch will flip and I will suddenly become homicidal. God, I wish the first phase lasted longer. Like, several days longer. I would get so much done. And feel better about it.
smonster - Nov 08, 2017 12:57:30 pm PST #2567 of 8216
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
My PMS killed the thread! Oh noes!!
sj - Nov 08, 2017 1:00:13 pm PST #2568 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I just get the homicidal with my PMS and lately, extra pain.
meara - Nov 08, 2017 2:56:05 pm PST #2569 of 8216
My traveling companion has pms I think...but I had it before her...we've also been traveling ten days so about ready to kill each other. Our communication styles are not the sae
Nora Deirdre - Nov 08, 2017 5:08:13 pm PST #2570 of 8216
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
ugh, Tom is having a shitty time at work, I just got back from shittiness with my parents, I've had a headache all day, and we're both in shitty moods. I hate it when we're both in that super negative headspace. He's at writing class tonight, so he'll be anxious and tense when he comes home and I just feel like I fail at human communication (a week with my family will do that) and UGH.
Sorry, I know this doesn't make a whole lot of sense but I needed to get it out of my head.
I just feel like the worst (again, a fun thing from quality time with my parents) and Tom always feels like the worst (which breaks my heart, because he's the best) and we work hard to not bring our inherited dysfunction into our relationship but I feel like that's all broken down right now.
Ugh, I'm the worst.
Laura - Nov 08, 2017 5:15:56 pm PST #2571 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.
I hate it when we're both in that super negative headspace.
Super Ugh, that is the worst. That whole partnership thing where one person has to step up and be the positive one when both are in that other place. I hates it.
sj - Nov 08, 2017 5:20:31 pm PST #2572 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Nora, you and Tom are both the best. I'm sorry things are hard right now.
beth b - Nov 08, 2017 5:28:48 pm PST #2573 of 8216
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Step I hope you have the break from this
and Nora you are not the worst neither is tom
How do you take Ibuprfen and tylonel together...DH is in some mouth pain for a tooth extraction that has been difficult - and I think th ecombo might be easier on his stomach