Poor Buffy. Your life resists all things average.

Willow ,'First Date'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Dana - May 22, 2017 7:11:29 am PDT #252 of 8185
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Sorry, sj. You do what you can, and you're taking care of ltc. That's a huge thing.

I did another thing regarding money I'd already paid someone. Woohoo.


smonster - May 22, 2017 8:10:24 am PDT #253 of 8185
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

sj, I'm sorry you still don't feel well. Hope today eases up for you.

Go Dana, with the things!

I have now run All The Errands, though some were not as successful as I would have liked. Now to shop and get the guys going, then maybe catch up a bit on admin stuff. So far behind.

Laura, I hope you have a nice, productive day.


Laura - May 22, 2017 8:45:48 am PDT #254 of 8185
Our wings are not tired.

Sorry, sj. You do what you can, and you're taking care of ltc. That's a huge thing.

Exactly! It is amazing that anything at all ever gets done with a toddler in the house.

I'm working, and spending too much time on the internet.


Glamcookie - May 22, 2017 8:47:26 am PDT #255 of 8185
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Oh, sj, I'm so sorry. I remember those days. Being a parent is no joke. Don't worry about getting anything done today. Just get through the day the best you can.


sj - May 22, 2017 9:42:07 am PDT #256 of 8185
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Am I a horrible person if I consider putting ltc in daycare for two half days a week so that I can have time for doctors appointments an just generally take care of myself?


Jessica - May 22, 2017 9:42:38 am PDT #257 of 8185
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

No! Daycare is great!


Glamcookie - May 22, 2017 9:45:50 am PDT #258 of 8185
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

You are not horrible at all for that, sj. Everyone needs some time and space for themselves.


Laura - May 22, 2017 9:46:14 am PDT #259 of 8185
Our wings are not tired.

My kids loved daycare. The socialization is great for them.


sj - May 22, 2017 9:47:03 am PDT #260 of 8185
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

But I don't work outside of the home so the idea just feels a little awful. I sent an inquiry about price and availability to the daycare down the street anyway. I also managed to shower and get dressed and make an onerous phone call.


Jessica - May 22, 2017 9:49:16 am PDT #261 of 8185
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

You get time for self-care, ltc gets socialization and a stronger immune system. Trust me, there is no downside.