Ugh Jessica, that's a PITA
'Our Mrs. Reynolds'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
My shoulder's been hurting a lot the past couple of weeks, but interestingly, it doesn't hurt as bad when I wear a wrist brace. Interconnectedness is odd.
I am very sorry if my FB feed is causing any of you trauma. Jebus.
I blocked him because I was getting frustrated with the conversation, not because it caused me any trauma (though it was fairly agitating, but my bar is set kind of low for agitation these days). The best way to bail on that frustration is to physically not be able to see the conversation, so -- blockage. (And blocking him prevents *me* from continuing to argue as well, which was also a good idea.)
Holy fuck that was a lot of emotional labor!
Sorry, I feel like I might have been the one who derailed, but man, was it necessary.
Y'all should go look at my timeline now, though, because one of my dudes totally came through with the best possible ally post and now I'm all totally teary because I swear I thought I wasn't going to be getting through to anyone, but it's ok, he totally gets it, so the other dudes totally can too.
I still feel like he doesn't get it. You asked him to stop, and he liked your comment.
I'm not going to jump in and give him another woman to not believe, but I'm really aggravated at his attitude and dismissal of people who don't meet his ideals of proper dialogue.
Liese, it was, but JFC I think it was for naught.
Oh, he definitely doesn't get it. But hey, I tried! Hahahahahahahah oh god i'm so tired
You're amazing, Liese. I'm so sorry.
You don't have to be sorry, aurelia, it wasn't on you in any way.
I'm glad we're backchanneling about it, though, because seriously, holy fuck.