Sooner or later, you're gonna want it. And the second — the second — that happens, you know I'll be there. I'll slip in, have myself a real good day.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


SuziQ - Jul 14, 2017 9:28:38 am PDT #1120 of 8208
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Thanks, Pix. I feel like I've done a bunch of things this morning - updated my hair color, showered, worked a half day, and have been able to walk without a crutch or relying on walls for support. Things I can't do yet - bend over/squat without pain.

I've submitted my timesheet for the week. I have a new class starting on Monday, so my plan for the afternoon is to nap and start reading my text book. I may not remember the details, but hopefully I'll remember the big picture stuff.


Sue - Jul 14, 2017 3:04:27 pm PDT #1121 of 8208
hip deep in pie

I threw out my back on Wednesday bending down to empty out the dehumidifier, (I didn't even pick it up!) and for some reason, I only got muscle relaxants tonight. What was I thinking?


WindSparrow - Jul 14, 2017 7:04:12 pm PDT #1122 of 8208
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I have a stability ball at my desk at work. 1) It cost $25 which is wayyyyyyy cheaper than a good office chair that would be comfortable as well as commodious enough for my delicate posterior; 2) I can take breaks to do stretches for the benefit of my piriformis; 3) wiggling around on it while working seems to prevent a boatload, or should I say buttload, of stiff-and-sore-ness when I get up. I highly recommend sitting on stability balls while working.

One drawback is in humidity, it can get kind of sweaty in a way that fabric upholstery does not.

ETA Sue, Suzi, everybody in pain, I wish you ease and improvement.

I am having not-quite coping. I'm having my second period since I started taking lexapro three and a half weeks ago. I can say that it is champion of toning down the PMS rage/anxiety (not quite coping is dead brilliant comparatively) that I've had with my cycles the last year-ish. Hasn't touched the deep resentment at having another period in less than a month when I was not expecting it for a couple of months, oddly enough.


askye - Jul 15, 2017 3:41:14 am PDT #1123 of 8208
Thrive to spite them

I'm at my nephew's swim meet. First one I've been to this year. I forgot to bring ear buds to listen to music. It's already too much noise.

I can't leave. Well I could but I don't think I could find parking we were late and it was already tricky.


juliana - Jul 15, 2017 4:45:37 am PDT #1124 of 8208
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I hope everyone's doing as well as can be this morning.

Andi, they make stability ball covers, so you don't have to stick to them: [link]

Peanut woke up at 5, and I managed to get her back down, but now I'm up. Usually that would be okay, since I work Saturday mornings, but I took this Saturday off. Ah, well. more time to screw around on the interwebs.


WindSparrow - Jul 15, 2017 5:03:58 am PDT #1125 of 8208
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Happy screwing around, juliana.

It did not occur to me that I could make a cover for it. Hmmm...

askye, I wish relief and tolerance.


Laura - Jul 15, 2017 6:58:50 am PDT #1126 of 8208
Our wings are not tired.

My current working setup is a big comfy chair with my computer on a side table and keyboard and mouse on a laptop board. I am using the ball from my stability chair loose as a footstool. It works great because of the soft bounce factor.


Nora Deirdre - Jul 15, 2017 9:03:42 am PDT #1127 of 8208
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Soooo, I think Tom and I will run away from Columbus when we are there for a week over Xmas (12/24-31.) Since I am procrastinating, I have starting planning the trip, and I think we'll head to Cincinnati for a few days, 12/28-31.

So, Teppy, flea, Hil - where's a fun neighborhood to stay in that has cool restaurants and breweries and such?


Nora Deirdre - Jul 15, 2017 9:23:58 am PDT #1128 of 8208
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

lol, I'm far too impatient, I just booked at Six Acres B&B which looked pretty close (relatively speaking) to Northside.


SuziQ - Jul 15, 2017 10:48:27 am PDT #1129 of 8208
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Pathetic whine ahead. Yesterday I did too much so I have tried to lower my expectations for today. I just need to start reading my text book and be here for the delivery and setup of the futon.

I had asked CJ to be here between 11-6 so he would be here during the delivery but then they called and I'm scheduled between 6-8. Ugh. And CJ had plans with his gf this evening. So I asked him to help with a few household chores. He happily agreed but had done none of them. I started to clean up clutter and then he got mad cause I didn't ask for help. I did. Hours ago. And now I'm hurting again.

Kitty litter still needs to be dealt with, outside plants need to be watered, and i just don't have the umph. I'd also like to clean yup my office a bit more, though the floor is clear which is the minimum needed for today.

Kelly is picking up H from the airport after visiting her mom. She may or may not be able to be here between 6-8 let alone to help me accomplish other house stuff. I HATE needing help.