I like the ruffles.

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Consuela - Mar 02, 2017 8:18:40 pm PST #7985 of 30002
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Yay, shrift!

So tonight I had a discussion with a friend who had never heard of Up With People. And while I knew of them (and even remember some of the theme song), apparently I actually knew nothing about them. Like, that they were a kind of reactionary group, possibly funded by the government?

[link]


brenda m - Mar 03, 2017 4:10:43 am PST #7986 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

My boss called me yesterday to do my performance review while I was in an Uber on the way to a client presentation. So that was fun. I had headphones so I didn't ask to reschedule.

It was fine, everything positive, but while our team exceeded our numbers the wider business group did not so no top ups on bonuses and stuff. Whatev. After my epic meltdown last year I've decided to not really give a shit.


Tom Scola - Mar 03, 2017 4:11:30 am PST #7987 of 30002
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

There was a good metafilter thread about UWP a few years ago.


-t - Mar 03, 2017 4:23:54 am PST #7988 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I don't remember you melting down, brenda, but I'm generally in favor of not giving a shit about work stuff whenever practical. Glad for general positive review.

I need to start my self-eval, though maybe not today as I feel like my strengths and accomplishments would end up being along the lines of "aces at spending money" and "surprisingly quick with a limerick"


brenda m - Mar 03, 2017 4:34:36 am PST #7989 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I got royally screwed last year, in what should have been a freaking stellar review - worked incredibly hard, took on some toxic personalities and some major challenges to help out my boss, won a top manager award, and my team brought in 5 of the company's 10 largest wins. And I got shit. No merit increase, my standard bonus.

This year I actually come out slightly better than last, but also I didn't actually work very hard.

ETA: new role, new manager. I jumped before I was pushed. But I do need to find a better balance somehow.


Jesse - Mar 03, 2017 4:36:33 am PST #7990 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh yeah, that was some bullshit. I know I'm not ambitious, but not working that hard and doing better financially seems like the way to go to me!


meara - Mar 03, 2017 4:38:21 am PST #7991 of 30002

Geez, that's ridiculous Brenda. But yay for at least getting something this year.


-t - Mar 03, 2017 5:11:24 am PST #7992 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, now I remember. Yeah, that was some bullshit. I am even more on Team No Fucks to Give

My Goals for Next Year: clothing myself appropriately every day that I go to the office. Because getting dressed is hard today. Should've done laundry last night, I guess.


Dana - Mar 03, 2017 5:17:21 am PST #7993 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Nuns are hardcore.

they don't call the head nun "Mother Superior" any more

But I'm sorry, I can't allow this.

brenda, that sucks. Is it that bullshit evaluation system where everything has to fit into a bell curve, so some people have to be at or below expectations, no matter how they performed?

I did get my steroids last night. Woot. And slept for 10.5 hours, despite the massive dose of steroids I took at 8.


Tom Scola - Mar 03, 2017 5:27:06 am PST #7994 of 30002
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

They arrested a man for making some of the JCC threats: [link]

He sounds like a real piece of work.