I had a whole section about civic pride.

Mayor ,'Chosen'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


billytea - Jul 20, 2017 5:20:29 pm PDT #14141 of 30002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Just ascend already.

I am clearly way overthinking this, but I'm feeling like what we're seeing with Trump is if Balthazar had been given the role of the Big Bad by mistake. Where is the Republican member of Congress who, when Trump says "You know what I want", has the fortitude to respond with "If it's for me to scrub those hard-to-reach areas, I'd like to request you kill me now"?


sarameg - Jul 20, 2017 5:32:40 pm PDT #14142 of 30002

Ah crap, I'm probably gonna start my period on this trip. Unamused.

And in less personal, I'm getting a comment retweeted (I don't tweet much, I use twitter for info) about city pools vs fancyschmany pool ($50 a SUMMER + adult morning swim vs a DAY) & kinda freaky. Especially when local pols I really don't like. Otoh, more people know the awesome of summer city pool pass.


Gudanov - Jul 20, 2017 6:01:35 pm PDT #14143 of 30002
Coding and Sleeping

I'd really like to post snarky stuff about Trump, but I don't have time.

I'm feeling kind of down. My wife apparently thinks I'm too lazy and don't do enough. The last four days I've been solid busy from waking up to collapsing in bed. I'm thinking I just suck at doing stuff in general. I feel miserable a lot of the time, and I just seem to disappoint people no matter how much I try and I guess mostly fail to do. What the fuck is the point? I wish I could just go to sleep and not have to wake up.


Kat - Jul 20, 2017 6:04:45 pm PDT #14144 of 30002
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

aurelia - Jul 20, 2017 6:31:27 pm PDT #14145 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Gud, your wife is not a credible source. Her opinions belong in the junk folder.


beth b - Jul 20, 2017 6:52:49 pm PDT #14146 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

congrats, Scrappy

Yay, Sophia


-t - Jul 20, 2017 7:24:41 pm PDT #14147 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm sorry, Gud. That sounds like a very difficult situation. It doesn't seem from here as if you are lazy or don't do much or are bad at doing stuff.

Tres cool, sarameg!


Scrappy - Jul 20, 2017 8:33:33 pm PDT #14148 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Gud, I suggest you make a poster for each member of the family and hang them on the wall. Underneath each person's name, write all the tasks they do. That way you can all actually see who does what. Maybe your son can cook once every couple of weeks, maybe your daughter adds vacuuming on Saturday before dinner to her list. Maybe your wife will see what you do and realize her expectations are off.


Consuela - Jul 20, 2017 9:05:00 pm PDT #14149 of 30002
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Gud, you are clearly constantly busy, so busy that you don't have time for yourself. I do not understand why you accept your wife's statements this way: she is wrong.


DavidS - Jul 20, 2017 9:16:07 pm PDT #14150 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I do not understand why you accept your wife's statements this way: she is wrong.

Yeah this. Your wife is the problem, Gud. Not you. She's a problematic person.