Ugh it’s shitty how many buffistas this thread now stands for. Do not want!
Bye, now. Have good sex.
Kaylee ,'Jaynestown'
ita's thread
A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.
meara - Dec 13, 2025 8:35:14 pm PST #3186 of 3197
Pix - Dec 14, 2025 12:29:45 am PST #3187 of 3197
The status is NOT quo.
I was just thinking that.
Laura - Dec 14, 2025 5:57:33 am PST #3188 of 3197
Our wings are not tired.
Far too many, but I like having a spot to come to when I see something or hear something that reminds me of one of our loved ones. It happens often, and we should share these moments.
DavidS - Dec 14, 2025 9:01:23 am PST #3189 of 3197
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Far too many, but I like having a spot to come to when I see something or hear something that reminds me of one of our loved ones. It happens often, and we should share these moments.
On that note, I'll say that I had Ouise as my Secret Santa one year and I sent her the Edward Gorey Cardboard Dracula Theater, and I think of her every time I see it for sale at Borderland Books. And I remember the sweet remembrances of the Haligonians talking about listening to her sing at her choir even as she neared the end.
sj - Dec 15, 2025 7:41:33 am PST #3190 of 3197
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I keep having dreams of f2f gatherings with Buffistas. I miss all of you that I don’t get to see in person or online as much anymore, and I hate how many wonderful people we’ve lost.
Vortex - Dec 16, 2025 10:07:14 pm PST #3191 of 3197
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
As much as I hate this thread has to exist, I love the space to mourn, celebrate, and remember our family. I love this thread and the people that this board has brought into my life, so I can't ever be sad that we get a space to celebrate the people that mean so much to us.
erikaj - Dec 19, 2025 1:02:00 pm PST #3192 of 3197
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-
I think this has to be here. "No lies between us." The Wire--Ray Cole's wake. [link]
erikaj - Dec 28, 2025 11:19:45 am PST #3193 of 3197
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-
How brilliant was the Bojack Horseman with his mother's funeral?1ETA: more info. [link] I really laughed and cried, about a talking horse. Never expected that. Or to be sitting there thinking that I like churros, but my mother doesn't. Or that I thought Becker was fine, but not much better than fine, so maybe the horsey TV star had a good eyes. It might be like the fruitpunch speech, for parents.
brenda m - Jan 02, 2026 8:42:02 am PST #3194 of 3197
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
I found one of ita’s old Supernatural T-shirts when I was going through a drawer at the Cabin the other day. I’m a long way from fitting into it right now, but it’s not going anywhere.
JenP - Jan 04, 2026 11:38:37 am PST #3195 of 3197
I am filling in for Laura today to mark ita's day of birth this year. Loved and missed still and always by so many people.