I keep having dreams of f2f gatherings with Buffistas. I miss all of you that I don’t get to see in person or online as much anymore, and I hate how many wonderful people we’ve lost.
You got all kinds of learnin' and you made me look the fool without tryin', and yet here I am with a gun to your head. That's 'cause I got people with me. People who trust each other, who do for each other, and ain't always lookin' for the advantage.
Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'
ita's thread
A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.
sj - Dec 15, 2025 7:41:33 am PST #3190 of 3197
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Vortex - Dec 16, 2025 10:07:14 pm PST #3191 of 3197
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
As much as I hate this thread has to exist, I love the space to mourn, celebrate, and remember our family. I love this thread and the people that this board has brought into my life, so I can't ever be sad that we get a space to celebrate the people that mean so much to us.
erikaj - Dec 19, 2025 1:02:00 pm PST #3192 of 3197
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-
I think this has to be here. "No lies between us." The Wire--Ray Cole's wake. [link]
erikaj - Dec 28, 2025 11:19:45 am PST #3193 of 3197
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-
How brilliant was the Bojack Horseman with his mother's funeral?1ETA: more info. [link] I really laughed and cried, about a talking horse. Never expected that. Or to be sitting there thinking that I like churros, but my mother doesn't. Or that I thought Becker was fine, but not much better than fine, so maybe the horsey TV star had a good eyes. It might be like the fruitpunch speech, for parents.
brenda m - Jan 02, 2026 8:42:02 am PST #3194 of 3197
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
I found one of ita’s old Supernatural T-shirts when I was going through a drawer at the Cabin the other day. I’m a long way from fitting into it right now, but it’s not going anywhere.
JenP - Jan 04, 2026 11:38:37 am PST #3195 of 3197
I am filling in for Laura today to mark ita's day of birth this year. Loved and missed still and always by so many people.
Nilly - Jan 04, 2026 12:05:46 pm PST #3196 of 3197
Swouncing
Sorry for ignoring ongoing conversations, but last year I was grateful to be able to participate in the lovely Zoom event that ita's sister has arranged in honor of ita. Towards the end of the Zoom event, she mentioned how she'd be interested in reading some of ita's writing from this board.
So I've gone over the old GWW threads, and collected her drabbles. She was such a wonderful writer, evoking senses and emotions in such a few words.
I've e-mailed the links to ita's sister, but I think they should also be here.
DavidS - Jan 04, 2026 2:39:25 pm PST #3197 of 3197
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
How thoughtful, Nilly! What a lovely resource.