And remember, if you hurt her, I will beat you to death with a shovel.

Willow ,'Conversations with Dead People'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


-t - Aug 19, 2025 11:16:23 am PDT #3171 of 3182
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Always good to spend some time thinking about amyth!


erikaj - Aug 20, 2025 2:38:12 pm PDT #3172 of 3182
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

definitely true.


-t - Sep 03, 2025 2:27:21 pm PDT #3173 of 3182
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

From Allyson on FB

I got the following message from ita’s sister, Moji. I can’t remember my Buffistas password so if you could share this, I’m grateful.

Hi Allyson,

I thought I'd let you know that Daddy died on August 16 after a brief illness. We're having his memorial service this Saturday, September 6 at 11am JA time. It will be livestreamed so if there's anyone from ita's circle who'd like to watch, the link is below.

I'll be wearing ita's gingham!

I hope you're as well as can be...

Best, Moji

-- "We're all fragile. Even the dinosaurs bit it. What can you be in between your beginning and your end, is the question."

[link]


Laura - Oct 08, 2025 5:50:31 am PDT #3174 of 3182
Our wings are not tired.

Remembering omnis_audis on his birthday, today. I hope BC knew how important he was to so many.


Pix - Oct 09, 2025 5:46:23 pm PDT #3175 of 3182
The status is NOT quo.

So missed.


askye - Oct 13, 2025 7:20:52 am PDT #3176 of 3182
Thrive to spite them

I didn't know BC well. But we did play the BSG game on here and it was so much fun. I was thinking of him when I was at the Comicon last Sunday.

Also ita. I saw a bad ass Storm cosplay the woman was in Storm's leather pants, leather vest, white tank outfit. And then seeing all the amazing and talented Black artists there.


erikaj - Oct 15, 2025 11:48:49 am PDT #3177 of 3182
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

I've been watching "You're The Worst" and saw Samira Wiley yesterday.


Laura - Nov 01, 2025 1:04:49 pm PDT #3178 of 3182
Our wings are not tired.

Thinking of Ginger today on her birthday. She is indeed missed.


erikaj - Nov 01, 2025 6:06:28 pm PDT #3179 of 3182
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

she comes up in my contacts a lot, but I don't erase it.


javachik - Nov 16, 2025 11:52:57 am PST #3180 of 3182
Our wings are not tired.

Same with Amyth. And JZ. I still have voicemails from Amy and JZ that I’ve saved to a hard drive.