Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Laura - Aug 18, 2025 6:16:24 am PDT #3169 of 3219
This too shall pass.

Today we take some time to remember Amyth on her birthday. She wasn't a myth! She was a precious friend who brought joy to so many.


brenda m - Aug 19, 2025 8:59:30 am PDT #3170 of 3219
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

<3


-t - Aug 19, 2025 11:16:23 am PDT #3171 of 3219
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Always good to spend some time thinking about amyth!


erikaj - Aug 20, 2025 2:38:12 pm PDT #3172 of 3219
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

definitely true.


-t - Sep 03, 2025 2:27:21 pm PDT #3173 of 3219
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

From Allyson on FB

I got the following message from ita’s sister, Moji. I can’t remember my Buffistas password so if you could share this, I’m grateful.

Hi Allyson,

I thought I'd let you know that Daddy died on August 16 after a brief illness. We're having his memorial service this Saturday, September 6 at 11am JA time. It will be livestreamed so if there's anyone from ita's circle who'd like to watch, the link is below.

I'll be wearing ita's gingham!

I hope you're as well as can be...

Best, Moji

-- "We're all fragile. Even the dinosaurs bit it. What can you be in between your beginning and your end, is the question."

[link]


Laura - Oct 08, 2025 5:50:31 am PDT #3174 of 3219
This too shall pass.

Remembering omnis_audis on his birthday, today. I hope BC knew how important he was to so many.


Pix - Oct 09, 2025 5:46:23 pm PDT #3175 of 3219
The status is NOT quo.

So missed.


askye - Oct 13, 2025 7:20:52 am PDT #3176 of 3219
Thrive to spite them

I didn't know BC well. But we did play the BSG game on here and it was so much fun. I was thinking of him when I was at the Comicon last Sunday.

Also ita. I saw a bad ass Storm cosplay the woman was in Storm's leather pants, leather vest, white tank outfit. And then seeing all the amazing and talented Black artists there.


erikaj - Oct 15, 2025 11:48:49 am PDT #3177 of 3219
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

I've been watching "You're The Worst" and saw Samira Wiley yesterday.


Laura - Nov 01, 2025 1:04:49 pm PDT #3178 of 3219
This too shall pass.

Thinking of Ginger today on her birthday. She is indeed missed.