Yes, it's terribly simple. The good guys are always stalwart and true, the bad guys are easily distinguished by their pointy horns or black hats, and, uh, we always defeat them and save the day. No one ever dies, and everybody lives happily ever after.

Giles ,'Conversations with Dead People'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


msbelle - Feb 07, 2015 4:15:16 pm PST #1507 of 3157
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

no notes needed. I love you guys so much. If you need to say thanks for you, then you'll see us all.


JenP - Feb 07, 2015 5:57:19 pm PST #1508 of 3157

ita's HTML entities page

Oh, thank you, DX. I've used and appreciated that many times.

Agreeing with everyone about no notes needed.


quester - Feb 08, 2015 1:27:31 pm PST #1509 of 3157
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

I got the package yesterday, Lee. Thank you.

I waited till just now to open it. I think I'm going to have to frame them. I don't want them getting dusty.

sad now.


Trudy Booth - Feb 08, 2015 7:58:05 pm PST #1510 of 3157
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

My package has also arrived. Thank you, Lee.


Katerina Bee - Feb 09, 2015 10:34:51 am PST #1511 of 3157
Herding cats for fun

I've been wearing her garnet ring, imagining it has some sort of superhero power to make me stronger. It's silly, magical thinking, but it helps.

Just wanted to say that I once tried on an expensive garnet necklace that liked me. Didn't buy it, still regret it. Those stones had a warm feeling unlike anything I've ever met.

Plus I once had a wonderful supernatural mystical experience while handling the onyx ring owned by my friend's late grandma. I was spinning the ring on my finger, idly thinking about how sad it was that I was alive while she was dead. It felt like she laughed and patted my head with a gentle hand, telling me that we silly living people will understand it all soon enough. I loved that. Brought me comfort, though I'm no crystal handling spiritualist.

I think ita's garnet ring can't help but channel her energy while it is worn by someone who loves her as much as Allyson does. The power of the shiny hair will always keep it charged.

Thought I had finished my crying. Clearly not.


Kiba Rika - Feb 09, 2015 10:56:10 am PST #1512 of 3157
I may have to seize the cat.

No notes needed, Allyson. I feel like the thank you post in Press was more than enough thanks (and so beautiful, so th- I mean, your hair is so shiny). When you're out of spoons, I think you should only do the things that have to be done to keep your life moving, and let the rest wait. Only you know what those things are, but I would bet thank you notes and projects aren't.

I was drowsing through an episode of My Name is Earl this morning, in which Earl put on a funeral for someone he'd wronged in the past. No one showed up, but when they went back to the guy's house, his computer screen was full of IMs from people checking in on him. I had to turn the episode off at that point, to prevent crying. And then I was quite awake.


erikaj - Feb 09, 2015 12:53:04 pm PST #1513 of 3157
Always Anti-fascist!

I've thought about that episode the whole time.


EpicTangent - Feb 10, 2015 9:17:12 pm PST #1514 of 3157
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I got my package, Lee, thanks so much. I'm struck by how tiny the shirts are...doesn't seem like such a big personality could fit in them...


Dana - Feb 11, 2015 4:11:44 am PST #1515 of 3157
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I also got my package, Lee. Thank you.

(And because I suck, I have not sent yours yet, but I haven't actually forgotten this time.)


Strix - Feb 11, 2015 4:18:22 am PST #1516 of 3157
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Quick Hivemind question: I got one of ita's SPN shirts. I love it as a shirt, love it MUCH MORE as a keepsake, but I need some opinions.

It fits me, except the neck is too tight. I've never been able to wear ANYTHING too tight around the neck -- tees, turtlenecks, chokers, scarves -- I think I was strangled in a former life.

Would it be sacrilegious for me to neatly cut the neck wider? Would you guys mind? Do you think ita would disapprove?

I want to be able to wear the shirt when I need to channel ita's kickassedness, and in her memory, but I have been really wrestling with whether or not to do this, so I'm going to let the Buffistas tell me what I should do. I'm in a real dilemma.

Thanks, all.