I'll nurse you back to health. I'll wear the nurse outfit!

"BuffyBot" ,'Dirty Girls'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


shrift - Feb 07, 2015 1:32:00 pm PST #1497 of 3157
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Thank you for handling the mailing.

This. Thanks again, Lee.

I've been wearing her garnet ring, imagining it has some sort of superhero power to make me stronger. It's silly, magical thinking, but it helps.

I'm planning to do this with her Batman shirt. Use whatever helps you fake it until you make it. Also, I was thinking about getting a tattoo when I stumbled across ita supporting me getting tattooed in COMM, so clearly it was meant to happen.

I don't expect a thank you note. If you can find some spoons, I'd rather you do something for yourself, or use it for the Pink Gingham Dress project.


Dana - Feb 07, 2015 1:44:19 pm PST #1498 of 3157
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I also do not expect a thank you note. If you've got limited spoons, and who doesn't, I'd rather you put your energy towards keeping yourself happy and healthy.


Jesse - Feb 07, 2015 1:54:01 pm PST #1499 of 3157
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Same.


Beverly - Feb 07, 2015 1:58:27 pm PST #1500 of 3157
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Agreed, no notes, and Allyson's shiny hair, and magical thinking surely helps. Thank you, DX for rescuing, and others for checking into keeping her pages up and available. Her tumblrs aren't showing up on my daily feed anymore, so I have them tabbed. Just my place to go visit and leave a nod, or a few damned tears, or a mental posy of flowers tied with gingham print ribbon.

Whatever any of us do, to sustain the memory for all of us, is vital, and welcome. Shiniest. hair. ever.


Ginger - Feb 07, 2015 2:08:59 pm PST #1501 of 3157
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I got my package, Lee, and I've been trying to find the words to express how perfect your choice is.

Notes are completely unnecessary, Allyson, but if it would make you feel better to send them, parcel out the list to us.


erikaj - Feb 07, 2015 2:30:16 pm PST #1502 of 3157
Always Anti-fascist!

wrod.


Zenkitty - Feb 07, 2015 3:57:06 pm PST #1503 of 3157
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Chiming in late, but agreeing with what everyone else said.


Lee - Feb 07, 2015 3:58:03 pm PST #1504 of 3157
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I got my package, Lee, and I've been trying to find the words to express how perfect your choice is.

This makes me very happy--it felt right to me, so I was hoping it would to you.


Scrappy - Feb 07, 2015 4:01:51 pm PST #1505 of 3157
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Lee's hair is also amazingly shiny.


sarameg - Feb 07, 2015 4:02:55 pm PST #1506 of 3157

The opportunity to help was the thanks. And you taking care of you is thanks.

Talismans are powerful in that you can not believe in magic, but they can be a reminder of a core or idea that can easily escape in daily life. By having that thing imbued with that meaning or memory carrying that weight, lying at first unfamiliar, or even later, when it becomes something you note in its absence, it comes to live inside your conscious mind. I panicked when I briefly lost the ring my mom gave me, not because it had any real value, but because it's our history together. I look at it and remember so much. I mean, that stuff won't go away, but as I worry it on my finger in an idle moment, I drift to that and it's a comfort.