Atherton: Half the men in this room wish you were on their arm, tonight. Inara: Only half. I must be losing my indefinable allure.

'Shindig'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Beverly - Jan 21, 2015 5:21:03 pm PST #1039 of 3157
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Katie! So good to see you here.


Sophia Brooks - Jan 21, 2015 5:43:56 pm PST #1040 of 3157
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Katie!


SuziQ - Jan 21, 2015 7:09:22 pm PST #1041 of 3157
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Katie!!!


DavidS - Jan 21, 2015 7:34:44 pm PST #1042 of 3157
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Awww, Katie B.


Kiba Rika - Jan 22, 2015 4:43:28 am PST #1043 of 3157
I may have to seize the cat.

I almost never move past the anger stage of grieving. I just stay angry, forever.


Laura - Jan 22, 2015 4:56:38 am PST #1044 of 3157
Our wings are not tired.

Anger rarely presents for me. I stick in the numb, for about forever.


Tom Scola - Jan 22, 2015 4:58:11 am PST #1045 of 3157
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

I'm not sure if I'm really past denial yet.


Atropa - Jan 22, 2015 5:08:27 am PST #1046 of 3157
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I might move past 'numb' once I'm past the two weeks of emotional black hole of the anniversary of my mom's passing and birthday. I kinda doubt it, tho'.


Kate P. - Jan 22, 2015 5:09:00 am PST #1047 of 3157
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Yeah, I think I'm mostly stuck in denial. It's such an odd feeling, to know that she's gone, and yet to also be able to go back and see her words anytime I want. Her words were how I knew her, and they're still there. In fact, it occurred to me recently that I ought to start watching SPN again (I've only seen the first two seasons, I think) so I can read the SPN thread and see more new posts from her. ...Perhaps not the healthiest way to deal, but I find the idea comforting.


JZ - Jan 22, 2015 5:11:02 am PST #1048 of 3157
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I have thoughts about using the anger to do something practical (among other things, there's an upcoming event at my campus that touches on a lot of the issues ita faced), but I'm not sure what thread they'd belong in - this is a remembering and loving thread, Natter is multi-topic and wandering, Bitches is a small subset. Maybe Business, or Great Write Way, or use the FB group?