Katie!!!
My love for me now / Ain't hard to explain / The Hero of Canton / The man they call...ME.
Jayne ,'Jaynestown'
ita's thread
A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.
SuziQ - Jan 21, 2015 7:09:22 pm PST #1041 of 3157
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
DavidS - Jan 21, 2015 7:34:44 pm PST #1042 of 3157
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Awww, Katie B.
Kiba Rika - Jan 22, 2015 4:43:28 am PST #1043 of 3157
I may have to seize the cat.
I almost never move past the anger stage of grieving. I just stay angry, forever.
Laura - Jan 22, 2015 4:56:38 am PST #1044 of 3157
Our wings are not tired.
Anger rarely presents for me. I stick in the numb, for about forever.
Tom Scola - Jan 22, 2015 4:58:11 am PST #1045 of 3157
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500
I'm not sure if I'm really past denial yet.
Atropa - Jan 22, 2015 5:08:27 am PST #1046 of 3157
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
I might move past 'numb' once I'm past the two weeks of emotional black hole of the anniversary of my mom's passing and birthday. I kinda doubt it, tho'.
Kate P. - Jan 22, 2015 5:09:00 am PST #1047 of 3157
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love
Yeah, I think I'm mostly stuck in denial. It's such an odd feeling, to know that she's gone, and yet to also be able to go back and see her words anytime I want. Her words were how I knew her, and they're still there. In fact, it occurred to me recently that I ought to start watching SPN again (I've only seen the first two seasons, I think) so I can read the SPN thread and see more new posts from her. ...Perhaps not the healthiest way to deal, but I find the idea comforting.
JZ - Jan 22, 2015 5:11:02 am PST #1048 of 3157
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
I have thoughts about using the anger to do something practical (among other things, there's an upcoming event at my campus that touches on a lot of the issues ita faced), but I'm not sure what thread they'd belong in - this is a remembering and loving thread, Natter is multi-topic and wandering, Bitches is a small subset. Maybe Business, or Great Write Way, or use the FB group?
Steph L. - Jan 22, 2015 5:14:13 am PST #1049 of 3157
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
The O Deck people have mentioned us (in the comments), which is a little weird, except for the fact that I'm doing the exact same thing, thus creating a whole Inception of references to ita's communities: [link]
JZ - Jan 22, 2015 5:29:18 am PST #1050 of 3157
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
From that remembrance thread:
I'd forgotten she knew people in the industry. She was a stuntswoman wasn't she?
See, I vaguely remember something about that. This is that larger than life thing and it is more pronounced when you start piecing together aspects of her life as a whole.
Ah ha ha! She'd love that. I hope she's lurking from within.