In other news, we got up early to prepare for the cleaners. We cleaned the house to prepare for the cleaners. Apparently, the cleaners will not be coming, and our neighbor (whose house they also do) forgot to tell us they rescheduled with them for next week.

It's fine, I'm sure I didn't need that extra sleep.

I need to get to the post office today to send out gifts to the Utah contingent of the family. Kicking myself for yesterday. Everything I tried to take care of went a bit pear shaped. Not my fault but still, feeling like I'm blowing it big time in every direction.

Oh, Burrell, I know that feeling. You are getting all the big important things right--if you don't get minor daily things done in quite the way you want, be nice to yourself.

OK, the Winter Solstice just happened for us Northern Hemisphere folk. Happy Winter!

My condolences, msbelle.

Happy Solstice! It's sunny and 61 degF today. I'm taking it as a promise from the Sun.

You are getting all the big important things right

I hope that's true. I suspect it's not. In fact, I got a list: Raising kids in chaotic environment, sometimes leaning on them emotionally--two big no-nos. Letting career stagnant. Not safeguarding finances, esp failing to ensure adequate retirement funds. House needs major repairs & remodelling. Husband feels unsupported.

Bah, I could go on, but I won't.

Okay, here's a few ways I'm doing things right, just for contrast: Keep family fed and housed. Shower family with love. Have a good job with benefits. Boss thinks I'm doing a good job at my job. Keep in touch with family and friends. Kids are doing well in school and socially.

I suppose that second list is more fundamental, but the first list is not insignificant.

Strength to you and your family, msbelle.

Love to you and yours, msbelle. I'm sorry for your loss.

Raising kids in chaotic environment,

Hey! They bring the chaos!