But that's just my point! You she obeys! She obeys you! There's obeying going on right under my nose!

Wash ,'War Stories'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Zenkitty - Dec 21, 2013 7:49:12 am PST #15207 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Happy Solstice! It's sunny and 61 degF today. I'm taking it as a promise from the Sun.


Burrell - Dec 21, 2013 8:08:03 am PST #15208 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

You are getting all the big important things right

I hope that's true. I suspect it's not. In fact, I got a list: Raising kids in chaotic environment, sometimes leaning on them emotionally--two big no-nos. Letting career stagnant. Not safeguarding finances, esp failing to ensure adequate retirement funds. House needs major repairs & remodelling. Husband feels unsupported.

Bah, I could go on, but I won't.

Okay, here's a few ways I'm doing things right, just for contrast: Keep family fed and housed. Shower family with love. Have a good job with benefits. Boss thinks I'm doing a good job at my job. Keep in touch with family and friends. Kids are doing well in school and socially.

I suppose that second list is more fundamental, but the first list is not insignificant.


Ginger - Dec 21, 2013 8:18:04 am PST #15209 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Strength to you and your family, msbelle.


Pix - Dec 21, 2013 8:20:20 am PST #15210 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Love to you and yours, msbelle. I'm sorry for your loss.


DavidS - Dec 21, 2013 8:30:09 am PST #15211 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Raising kids in chaotic environment,

Hey! They bring the chaos!


msbelle - Dec 21, 2013 8:49:16 am PST #15212 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Burrell, perhaps, we should just sit in a corner today and hug each other.

mac is home and knows. long hug and some tears, but he is holding it together. wants some alone time.


flea - Dec 21, 2013 8:52:36 am PST #15213 of 30000
information libertarian

I have read about children raised in chaotic environments, and a stable home location with two competent and engaged parents - no matter how much the floor needs to be vacuumed - is usually not what they mean by "chaotic."


Burrell - Dec 21, 2013 9:07:29 am PST #15214 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

::hugs msbelle::


Connie Neil - Dec 21, 2013 9:33:15 am PST #15215 of 30000
brillig

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le nubian - Dec 21, 2013 10:42:16 am PST #15216 of 30000
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Sorry msbelle. Best wishes and hang in there vibes.