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sj - Aug 20, 2013 7:47:01 am PDT #3477 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

E-mail Jilli about the mascara, that's what I did.

Are you doing your hair yourself or having someone do it? If you're having someone do it, make an appointment for a test run.

Where are you thinking you want to go on your honeymoon?

Tips for writing wedding vows: link.

Or, just tell me to shut up if this isn't helpful.


WindSparrow - Aug 20, 2013 7:54:19 am PDT #3478 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

sj, I was just about to suggest the Hivemind could help with about 2/3 of Teppy's freak-out list.


Steph L. - Aug 20, 2013 8:06:08 am PDT #3479 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Or, just tell me to shut up if this isn't helpful.

Nope, definitely helpful!

I do have an appointment for a test run for my hair, but I feel like I at least need to be able to tell her up or down, you know? (Actually, my problem is that I want to wear it down because I don't like the way I look in pictures with it up, but I'm afraid that wearing it down will be too hot.)

Where are you thinking you want to go on your honeymoon?

Northern California -- our problem is that we know where we want to go; we just haven't sat down to actually book flights, car, accomodations, etc.

Tips for writing wedding vows

I have some stuff bookmarked, but, again, our problem is that we haven't sat down to actually DO it.

And we still need to get a marriage license -- not a huge deal, but Tim has to take time off work to do it, and once again, he just needs to pick a date, take the morning off, and DO IT. (Well, we have to go together, but I have a lot of free time right now.)


lisah - Aug 20, 2013 8:12:36 am PDT #3480 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate

Have your stylist test one up and one down do.

We finally got our vows written by taking a couple of hours, the week of the wedding, going to a coffee shop, sitting separately, and writing them. My problem was I wanted to get too much in! But also didn't want to stand up there boring people for hours. I think it worked out in the end... well we are still happily married!


sj - Aug 20, 2013 8:19:19 am PDT #3481 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I do have an appointment for a test run for my hair, but I feel like I at least need to be able to tell her up or down, you know? (Actually, my problem is that I want to wear it down because I don't like the way I look in pictures with it up, but I'm afraid that wearing it down will be too hot.)

Bring a picture of your wedding gown, tell your stylist what type of jewelery you plan on wearing, and just have her try things until you're happy.

TCG and I didn't write our vows together, we just each wrote on our own what we wanted to say.

Northern California -- our problem is that we know where we want to go; we just haven't sat down to actually book flights, car, accomodations, etc.

That sounds like fun.


WindSparrow - Aug 20, 2013 8:19:41 am PDT #3482 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Have your stylist test one up and one down do

And explain the difficulty. Your stylist may have a reccomendation that will solve the problem. Like a half-up, half-down, tendrils or ringlets deal.


Polter-Cow - Aug 20, 2013 8:20:04 am PDT #3483 of 30002
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Northern California -- our problem is that we know where we want to go; we just haven't sat down to actually book flights, car, accomodations, etc.

Watch you end up in San Francisco while I'm in Columbus. Heh.

HEY STEPH YOU'RE GETTING MARRIED WOOOOOOO.


beekaytee - Aug 20, 2013 8:31:14 am PDT #3484 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I've been really surprised and a bit disappointed, that none of my recent couples have wanted to write their own vows.

I'm happy to provide, but I think it really takes something away from the moment.


erikaj - Aug 20, 2013 8:34:59 am PDT #3485 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

I'd probably send out multiple drafts, in the hugely unlikely event, of course. "People with the blue vows, forget it. I'm working off th e buff ones now." But that is part of the reason I probably won't need them, huh?


Connie Neil - Aug 20, 2013 8:50:49 am PDT #3486 of 30002
brillig

Hubby and I weren't too particular about vows, we were just interested in legality. We sat down with the preacher we'd finally found and looked at their standard vows, removed the Obey part--mid '80s, that still cropped up--and called it good. I don't remember a bit of what I promised, though I do enjoy telling people that I haven't official sworn to anything since my wedding day.