Can't drink, smoke, diddle my willy. Doesn't leave much to do other than watch you blokes stumble around playing Agatha Christie.

Spike ,'The Cautionary Tale of Numero Cinco'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Liese S. - Sep 13, 2016 2:15:35 pm PDT #26358 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Seems like it would be worth pursuing, Hil.


sj - Sep 13, 2016 2:20:05 pm PDT #26359 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Hil, the primary care you've been seeing won't fill out the forms for a handicap plate for you? I got mine through my primary and it was a really quick and easy form.


Hil R. - Sep 13, 2016 2:30:06 pm PDT #26360 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I haven't asked. I just assumed not. I didn't have a handicap plate in PA, but I think I'm starting to need one.


sj - Sep 13, 2016 2:31:27 pm PDT #26361 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

It's probably worth at least asking. December is a long time away.


Steph L. - Sep 13, 2016 7:13:52 pm PDT #26362 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

First therapy appointment in less than 8 hours (which is too damn early for me). (Yeah, 3 years of working from home has ruined me for normal human hours. I admit it.)


Topic!Cindy - Sep 13, 2016 7:21:06 pm PDT #26363 of 30002
What is even happening?

Thanks, Cindy. I wish it was that easy. I had a pretty good week last week and yesterday. Today is horrible. I'm exhausted and miserable. I had to force myself into the shower while ltc slept because I have friends coming over, but I really just wanted to nap. I wish I knew what is different about today.

sj, I think it comes down to the same (good) advice I got before my wedding. Every day, take a mental snapshot of ltc and your family. It goes so fast, you won't believe it.

I'm only saying that because my youngest is a high school junior, my daughter is a h.s. senior, and my oldest is a college junior. I don't know how we got here.

That said, I am not in any way invalidating your exhaustion. I have been where you are. I'm just saying (1) it gets better, and (2) you will miss it.

Nap when that baby does. You can catch up, later.


sj - Sep 13, 2016 7:21:55 pm PDT #26364 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Good luck, Teppy. I hope it goes well. My appointment on Thursday is at 10 which is too damn early for me. By the time I get ltc up and feed her and myself showered and dressed, I'll probably be rushing.


sj - Sep 13, 2016 7:24:17 pm PDT #26365 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Cindy, I already feel it is going to fast. The first year flew by, and now we're already a month into her second year. The days are long, but the months go by fast. I just wish my body and mind would allow me to enjoy it more.


Vortex - Sep 13, 2016 7:27:15 pm PDT #26366 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

(Yeah, 3 years of working from home has ruined me for normal human hours. I admit it.)

In a perfect world, normal human hours means awaking at 10, reading the iPad until 11, having a 2nd cup of coffee and a shower, then leaving the house at 12.


WindSparrow - Sep 13, 2016 7:38:01 pm PDT #26367 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Ha, I don't usually leave until after 1. Of course, I get home after 10.