Whatever happened to the still beating heart of a virgin? No one has any standards anymore.

Giles ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Calli - Sep 13, 2016 8:18:06 am PDT #26348 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

A late, but heartfelt, "Yay!" for Tim's good lung news.

Hil, I hope tonight's date goes well.

askye, one of the things I do at work is put Coursera courses together (no poetry ones, alas). We get students at all levels, with all kinds of backgrounds. Your perspective on the poetry will be appreciated. I hope you end up finding the course fulfilling. And if you find it doesn't suit you, assuming you're not doing the paid certificate thing, you can always say "to heck with it". I've started dozens of courses just to see how they're constructed and how the content's presented. I think I've finished three.


Beverly - Sep 13, 2016 8:35:19 am PDT #26349 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Steph, such good news about Tim--and I'm glad you guys celebrated appropriately. It's just too awful how hard the lead-up to the good news was. I hope this eases at least some of the tension you've been under for a while.


Steph L. - Sep 13, 2016 8:40:06 am PDT #26350 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

My first therapy appointment is tomorrow, and while the immediate Code Oh My God What Is Above Red stress has backed off, it's clear that I need to learn some coping skills. I know people don't always click with the first therapist they try, but I'm hoping that might happen here.

I just hope that future appointments won't be so goddamn early.


Connie Neil - Sep 13, 2016 8:42:21 am PDT #26351 of 30002
brillig

I hate the idea of having to interview therapists before getting to the work of therapy.

You guys are much more efficient.


Hil R. - Sep 13, 2016 9:04:58 am PDT #26352 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I took some Advil and Tylenol and rested a bit, and my ankle is feeling a little better, but I think I'm still going to be working from home today. For the first time in several weeks, I don't have all that much to do -- make slides for the next section of the online course, and answer emails -- so I can work on that from home.


askye - Sep 13, 2016 10:17:34 am PDT #26353 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Calli that's really cool.

It's not a certificate class so I won't lose any money from it. I'm trying not to be too intimidated by it.


NoiseDesign - Sep 13, 2016 10:26:34 am PDT #26354 of 30002
Our wings are not tired

I'm on a waiting list to get a parking tag for a closer garage. I've been on the waiting list for a year.

When I went to grad school there the parking was crazy, it's a bit better now. There was a 7 year waiting list to get into the old parking garage that was where the music school was located. I was going to be there for 2 years for grad school. I just got a lot of parking tickets.


Calli - Sep 13, 2016 10:47:29 am PDT #26355 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I work at a good sized university. One of my coworkers use to bike to work, but she recently moved 20 miles away to live with her fiancé, making that difficult. So she went to get a parking permit. Evidently she can't get a permit for a lot under a mile away. And they want to charge her an ungodly amount for it. How does paying for the privilege of coming to work make sense?


Zenkitty - Sep 13, 2016 10:54:48 am PDT #26356 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Have fun on your date, Hil! That sucks about the parking and work situation; unfortunately it sounds like they aren't taking your needs very seriously.

askye, I hope you enjoy your class!

sj, I'm sorry you feel so bad today. Wish I could figure out, myself, why some days are so bad for no apparent reason.

When I worked at Rutgers, I had to park way far away and walk through construction zones to get to work. At the interview, I was told I would have assigned parking and it was heavily implied that would be in the parking garage next door to my building. But then, they lied to me about a lot of things, including my salary.


Hil R. - Sep 13, 2016 11:38:33 am PDT #26357 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

That sucks about the parking and work situation; unfortunately it sounds like they aren't taking your needs very seriously.

Well, I haven't really tried to get anything done specifically for accessibility -- to park in the disabled spaces on campus, you need both a state disabled tag and a university disabled tag, but you can't get the university one unless you have the state one, and you can't get the state one without a note from a doctor, and I couldn't get an appointment with the doctor until December, and, well. The distance from the garage to my office is about a five-minute walk on a day when I'm feeling OK, so I'm mostly fine with it, but on days when I'm hurting, it feels like a lot.