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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Sep 13, 2016 2:31:27 pm PDT #26361 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

It's probably worth at least asking. December is a long time away.


Steph L. - Sep 13, 2016 7:13:52 pm PDT #26362 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

First therapy appointment in less than 8 hours (which is too damn early for me). (Yeah, 3 years of working from home has ruined me for normal human hours. I admit it.)


Topic!Cindy - Sep 13, 2016 7:21:06 pm PDT #26363 of 30002
What is even happening?

Thanks, Cindy. I wish it was that easy. I had a pretty good week last week and yesterday. Today is horrible. I'm exhausted and miserable. I had to force myself into the shower while ltc slept because I have friends coming over, but I really just wanted to nap. I wish I knew what is different about today.

sj, I think it comes down to the same (good) advice I got before my wedding. Every day, take a mental snapshot of ltc and your family. It goes so fast, you won't believe it.

I'm only saying that because my youngest is a high school junior, my daughter is a h.s. senior, and my oldest is a college junior. I don't know how we got here.

That said, I am not in any way invalidating your exhaustion. I have been where you are. I'm just saying (1) it gets better, and (2) you will miss it.

Nap when that baby does. You can catch up, later.


sj - Sep 13, 2016 7:21:55 pm PDT #26364 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Good luck, Teppy. I hope it goes well. My appointment on Thursday is at 10 which is too damn early for me. By the time I get ltc up and feed her and myself showered and dressed, I'll probably be rushing.


sj - Sep 13, 2016 7:24:17 pm PDT #26365 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Cindy, I already feel it is going to fast. The first year flew by, and now we're already a month into her second year. The days are long, but the months go by fast. I just wish my body and mind would allow me to enjoy it more.


Vortex - Sep 13, 2016 7:27:15 pm PDT #26366 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

(Yeah, 3 years of working from home has ruined me for normal human hours. I admit it.)

In a perfect world, normal human hours means awaking at 10, reading the iPad until 11, having a 2nd cup of coffee and a shower, then leaving the house at 12.


WindSparrow - Sep 13, 2016 7:38:01 pm PDT #26367 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Ha, I don't usually leave until after 1. Of course, I get home after 10.


Pix - Sep 13, 2016 10:51:19 pm PDT #26368 of 30002
The status is NOT quo.

I just tried really hard to like Vortex's post.


Steph L. - Sep 14, 2016 1:32:21 am PDT #26369 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Holy shit I can't believe I'm awake. I am in awe of everyone who is up this early on the regular.

When the alarm went off I was dreaming that I worked at a crappy grocery store and I couldn't get my employee badge to work in the time clock, and I knew my boss -- Jason Momoa -- would be mad at me.

The only reason I even shared that was the Jason Momoa part. Because that was both weird and amusing.

I'm attempting to drink more coffee than a human being should, and then go battle traffic.


Steph L. - Sep 14, 2016 2:54:54 am PDT #26370 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

So while I'm driving, the therapist calls to tell me she might be a little late because her son's bus was late and she's coming from Ohio. I told her I was coming from Ohio and it was clear, but maybe not where she's coming from.

I am not making this up: she said "I'm coming from Northside."