River: I know you have questions. Mal: That would be why I just asked them.

'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Calli - Jun 26, 2016 3:01:02 pm PDT #25172 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm so sorry you had to deal with that, sj.

Laura, I'm glad you had an amazing dinner.


sj - Jun 26, 2016 3:31:39 pm PDT #25173 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

ltc is in bed. We have eaten snack dinner and I am drinking sangria.


erikaj - Jun 26, 2016 3:44:13 pm PDT #25174 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

BTDT, well, not the mom thing obvs, because as Ginger might say the star has not risen in the east. Sadly, the lesson I got from it is less "happy and respectful reconciliation" and more "You can live without more people than you might believe possible." but I still don't think I would take it back.


beth b - Jun 26, 2016 4:46:59 pm PDT #25175 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

SJ - I just wished people had some level of manners - deliberately provoking someone is not dinner table conversation.

Teppy - that sounds like fin

and we will be happy from afar that buffistas meet again


Steph L. - Jun 27, 2016 7:46:05 am PDT #25176 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I am adulting like a mofo today. I went to Awesome Doctor to deal with my unending IBS, and once my insurance approves it, I have a new medication to try (fingers crossed it works [I missed seeing Hillary Clinton AND Elizabeth Warren for this doctor's appointment, so the drug had BETTER work]). And then I made an appointment to get 2 freaking crowns on my crappy teeth. And I also need to go pick out frames for my bifocals before Friday, because our insurance changes on Friday.

That's a lot of damn money, too. I can't remember what dollar amount I need to hit in order for it to be worthwhile to itemize medical expenses, but I'ma start saving all my receipts.


SuziQ - Jun 27, 2016 8:02:14 am PDT #25177 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Fingers crossed on the new med, Teppy.

My doctor's visit last week to discuss my sleep issues resulted in no real new information. I snore but do not have sleep apnea. We are checking my thyroid levels again. And I will be getting a referral to a sleep doctor to do a more formal sleep study. So, I'm waiting for the referral.


sj - Jun 27, 2016 8:42:34 am PDT #25178 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Is there a way to see exactly what someone who I'm not friends with sees when they look at my facebook page?


Steph L. - Jun 27, 2016 8:45:09 am PDT #25179 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Yes -- on your page, in the bottom right of the cover photo is a box that says, "Update Info," then a box that says, "View Activity Log," and then a box with 3 dots. Click the box with 3 dots and there should be a dropdown menu with an option for "View as..."

If you click "View as..." it should show you what your page looks like to the public (non-friends).


sj - Jun 27, 2016 8:49:47 am PDT #25180 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, Teppy. I wanted to see if my in-laws could see anything political I may have posted without my having friended them. I can't find anything. I wonder if they stalked me on Twitter?


Steph L. - Jun 27, 2016 8:51:42 am PDT #25181 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Man, if they're being that creepy, then they need to back the truck up.