Is there a way to see exactly what someone who I'm not friends with sees when they look at my facebook page?

Yes -- on your page, in the bottom right of the cover photo is a box that says, "Update Info," then a box that says, "View Activity Log," and then a box with 3 dots. Click the box with 3 dots and there should be a dropdown menu with an option for "View as..."

If you click "View as..." it should show you what your page looks like to the public (non-friends).

Thanks, Teppy. I wanted to see if my in-laws could see anything political I may have posted without my having friended them. I can't find anything. I wonder if they stalked me on Twitter?

Man, if they're being that creepy, then they need to back the truck up.

Sadly, the lesson I got from it is less "happy and respectful reconciliation" and more "You can live without more people than you might believe possible." but I still don't think I would take it back.

The majority of my family are racists and I don't have any communication with them anymore. There's nothing they could give me that would make it worth listening to their vile hateful talk. And they call themselves Christians.

My doctor's visit last week to discuss my sleep issues resulted in no real new information. I snore but do not have sleep apnea.

Glad you don't have apnea, but sorry you don't have an answer. My sleep study showed I have severe sleep apnea, which is a little scary. Still haven't gotten the CPAP machine yet.

Good luck with the new drugs, Steph!

So my new manager emailed me today with, we need to talk, and I was all OH GREAT HERE WE GO. So we talked. And we worked out a confusing thing and solved each other's problems and communicated effectively. I'm stunned.

They said something to TCG about something I posted on Facebook while I was hiding in the bathroom. Which is apparently why I was being "tested"? I'm feeling very paranoid at the moment.

They said something to TCG about something I posted on Facebook while I was hiding in the bathroom. Which is apparently why I was being "tested"?

Whaaaaaat? I don't even understand that.

Another in-law got aggravated at a response I posted on someone else's facebook page the other day, which I guess is something I don't really think about people seeing. Maybe I just need to take an online break, except it is the only interaction I have with adults some days.

Another in-law got aggravated at a response I posted on someone else's facebook page the other day, which I guess is something I don't really think about people seeing.

No. Their reaction is their responsibility. They can be aggravated, but what you post/comment on other posts is NOT ABOUT THEM.

Whaaaaaat? I don't even understand that.

Because I'm that crazy leftie liberal that everyone warned them about? I dunno really. I wouldn't even be talking to them at the moment after everything that went down a few years back except for ltc.