Eww Sophia, that is deeply wrong.
'War Stories'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
I disabled my account again. Too many creeps.
Yeah, too many creeps, indeed.
I think I found the last non-creepy guy on OKCUPID 7 years ago. Though I did have to suffer through a ton of "Shoe me yer titz" and "U look DTF."
Yikes. I think I am grateful I last dated prior to personal computers.
One of my girlfriends has been seeing a guy for a couple of years that she met on OKCupid, but she's about the only one I know of. I've never been brave enough to wade into that particular pond.
Completely by accident, I paid off my credit card! (I mean it wasn't like I was all, "Who can keep track of my piles of money?" -- it was more that I knew I was close-ish, but not sure exactly how close, and when it turned out to be $160 away, I went ahead and did it even though my APR is 0.0% right now. I figured why hang on to debt when the APR could pop back up.)
And, of course, this is in time to get 2 crowns on my chalk-like teeth. (One of the many things I miss about Ginger is her commiseration about crappy teeth and getting dealt a bad hand genetically when it comes to the ol' choppers.) And I *really* ought to buy a new laptop.
But still, right now, I will take the damn win.
Yeah, a while ago, I met a guy on OK Cupid that I dated for a while. And I've met a few other guys there that didn't really turn into anything, but they were nice. This time, I've got a bunch of guys from India and Pakistan sending me messages about my breasts. I blocked them, and removed one of my pictures. (I hadn't thought that picture was particularly boob-ish -- I'm wearing a tank top, and it's clear that I have breasts, but it would be clear that I have breasts if I wore anything other than a burka.) And I really like my smile in that picture -- it's one of the few photos of me smiling where I don't look like I'm plotting to kill someone -- but whatever. Maybe I'll crop it or something.
I'm also trying JDate, but so far, none of the guys that I've messaged there have responded. And one guy that I messaged on OK Cupid responded with, "Wow, it's really brave for a girl to message someone on here!" which is starting to make me feel like I'm just doing this whole thing wrong.