Can't even shout, Can't even cry. The Gentlemen are coming by. Looking in windows, knocking on doors. They need to take seven, and they might take yours. Can't call to mom, can't say a word. You're gonna die screaming but you won't be heard.

Dream Girl ,'Bring On The Night'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Jul 19, 2013 6:18:22 am PDT #2028 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Sorry about the ac Stephen. Hope things slow down.

I spent 3 hours on the phone with Comcast today. The modem probably isn't working. Its theirs and the earliest they can come out is Tuesday. May try buying my own.

I think I talked to four or five different departments before they finally decided it was the modem.


Pix - Jul 19, 2013 6:54:40 am PDT #2029 of 30002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I am close to tears dealing with Bank of America. We are now in our third extension of the refinance process we started in FEBRUARY, and the whole loan is hung up on some bullshit letter from the HOA attorney about litigation pending (which, for the record, is the HOA suing someone else, so I can't see how it's remotely relevant). Between various appraisals, assessments, and insurance adjustments, we are out over $800, and yet if this attorney doesn't send this letter today, the loan is dead and we've spent five months of stress and heartache and all that money for nothing.

We don't own our own house; this is a little condo in Florida that I co-own with my dad. It's completely paid off, and the loan we are trying to get is for half the value of the property. It's epic levels of ridiculous, and I'm so frustrated about it. The only reason we are refinancing is to consolidate debt, yet at the end it may end up costing us even more without any payoff.

I know this may not sound like a huge stressor, but it's pretty awful.


sj - Jul 19, 2013 7:10:17 am PDT #2030 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Pix, money is always a huge stressor. I'm sorry you're still dealing with this.


Amy - Jul 19, 2013 7:12:41 am PDT #2031 of 30002
Because books.

Pix, that kind of stuff is HUGELY stressful. Especially because it can make you feel really powerless. I sympathize completely. I'm sorry.


Laura - Jul 19, 2013 7:15:49 am PDT #2032 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

{{Pix}} They are beyond evil. I'm so sorry you have to deal with them.


Strix - Jul 19, 2013 7:26:15 am PDT #2033 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Mortages and finacing SUCK. It's hugely stressful. We almost lost our house 2 years ago due to ex-wife lies on non-payment and I had panic attacks for 4 months.

I'm sorry, Pix.


Kate P. - Jul 19, 2013 7:26:44 am PDT #2034 of 30002
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Ugh, Pix, that sounds like an utter nightmare. There's no reason it should be anywhere near this complicated. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this bullshit, and I'm especially sorry that you've had to spend a significant chunk of money on something that may not come to fruition, through no fault of your own.


Dana - Jul 19, 2013 7:30:35 am PDT #2035 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

My dealings with mortgage companies always leave me wanting to scream "What is WRONG with you people?"


Maria - Jul 19, 2013 7:48:17 am PDT #2036 of 30002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Pix, I'm sorry. It's a huge deal. And it sucks. I wish I could fix it for you.


le nubian - Jul 19, 2013 7:52:06 am PDT #2037 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Pix,

Can you talk to the HOA attorney and let him/her know how important this letter is?