Pix, that kind of stuff is HUGELY stressful. Especially because it can make you feel really powerless. I sympathize completely. I'm sorry.
How did your brain even learn human speech? I'm just so curious.
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Amy - Jul 19, 2013 7:12:41 am PDT #2031 of 30002
Because books.
Laura - Jul 19, 2013 7:15:49 am PDT #2032 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
{{Pix}} They are beyond evil. I'm so sorry you have to deal with them.
Strix - Jul 19, 2013 7:26:15 am PDT #2033 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Mortages and finacing SUCK. It's hugely stressful. We almost lost our house 2 years ago due to ex-wife lies on non-payment and I had panic attacks for 4 months.
I'm sorry, Pix.
Kate P. - Jul 19, 2013 7:26:44 am PDT #2034 of 30002
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love
Ugh, Pix, that sounds like an utter nightmare. There's no reason it should be anywhere near this complicated. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this bullshit, and I'm especially sorry that you've had to spend a significant chunk of money on something that may not come to fruition, through no fault of your own.
Dana - Jul 19, 2013 7:30:35 am PDT #2035 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
My dealings with mortgage companies always leave me wanting to scream "What is WRONG with you people?"
Maria - Jul 19, 2013 7:48:17 am PDT #2036 of 30002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
Pix, I'm sorry. It's a huge deal. And it sucks. I wish I could fix it for you.
le nubian - Jul 19, 2013 7:52:06 am PDT #2037 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
Pix,
Can you talk to the HOA attorney and let him/her know how important this letter is?
Pix - Jul 19, 2013 8:52:10 am PDT #2038 of 30002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
Thanks all. I finally got the contact info for the attorney on Monday. I have spoken to the attorney's two assistants on the phone and sent multiple emails, and no letter yet. The assistants were very nice and promised to speak to the attorney today, but honestly, it may be all for naught. Just got another email--now the underwriter has decided that the letters they requested from my school and my financial planner outlining "terms and conditions" of withdrawing from my 403b in case of financial need are not sufficient. Could any Buffista attorney clarify for me what on earth this means? Each letter explains the process and outlines all the terms and conditions as far as I can tell; I'm at a loss.
Pix - Jul 19, 2013 9:45:45 am PDT #2039 of 30002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
Never mind. The processor clarified, and the clarification is ALREADY IN THE LETTER. Clearly they are just not going to fund this loan. I'm so upset about the utter waste of time and energy and money over the past right months.
Steph L. - Jul 19, 2013 10:19:04 am PDT #2040 of 30002
I look more rad than Lutheranism
Pix, what the hell??? That is fucking ridiculous! I'm so sorry this has been such a clusterfuck.