It's like, in the middle of all this, I'm paranoid that you'll think I don't like poetry.

Buffy ,'Empty Places'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Mar 30, 2015 3:12:36 pm PDT #18327 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

askye, I can see how both approaches could be useful to you. I hope you get lots of good out of it.


sj - Mar 30, 2015 4:00:45 pm PDT #18328 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

erin, seconding what others have said, look up CBT and DBT and see if either of those are things that might interest you, and you can usually call your insurance carrier and ask them to give you names of those therapists that specialize in either of those. Best of luck to you.


Hil R. - Mar 30, 2015 4:14:16 pm PDT #18329 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Can't sleep. Coughing/wheezing too much.


sj - Mar 30, 2015 4:23:07 pm PDT #18330 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Hil, I'm sorry. You have been dealing with this for way too long.


Hil R. - Mar 30, 2015 4:43:41 pm PDT #18331 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Thanks, sj.


beth b - Mar 30, 2015 6:17:49 pm PDT #18332 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Sj, you are doing really well. Perfection is a difficult game with diabetes. It takes awhile to figure out how everything works for you. That is a really good level of control so quickly. You got a lot of good advice above. Congratulations on doing so well


WindSparrow - Mar 30, 2015 7:32:55 pm PDT #18333 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I'm sorry your cough keeps lingering, Hil.


beth b - Mar 30, 2015 7:50:36 pm PDT #18334 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Extra strength laura. And healing thoughts headed your way, Hil


Strix - Mar 31, 2015 7:39:27 am PDT #18335 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

CBT is a good therapy for me. And lots of people have had good luck with EMDR (I think?)


DavidS - Mar 31, 2015 7:43:32 am PDT #18336 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

CBT is a good therapy for me.

My mind went to a porny place (the one where CBT has a different meaning).