Good idea
This is my boat. They're part of my crew. No one's getting left. Best you get used to that.
Mal ,'Ariel'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Typo Boy - Sep 22, 2014 8:39:13 pm PDT #13388 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Typo Boy - Sep 23, 2014 4:09:19 am PDT #13389 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Turns out none of our local charity places will accept perishables in open containers (which makes sense). So neighbors are about to get a bonaza. I'll have to write the note passing on their thank yous,
Sparky1 - Sep 23, 2014 5:05:33 am PDT #13390 of 30002
Librarian Warlord
I'll have to write the note passing on their thank yous
I don't think you should, as that would just be feeding the beast. You refused her visit, you told her you did not want the food, and you don't want to deal with her again. ::shrugs:: So don't.
I am so sick of meetings. I can't get anything done if I always have to go to meetings!
brenda m - Sep 23, 2014 5:23:31 am PDT #13391 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Yeah, there's no call for that at all.
beekaytee - Sep 23, 2014 1:54:19 pm PDT #13392 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant
I'm with Sparky, Typo. You are not bound by social obligation to someone who is not civil or polite.
She made a choice. She should not expect a response.
Silence is your friend.
Glamcookie - Sep 23, 2014 2:09:48 pm PDT #13393 of 30002
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Agreed with the others in re: the food. Hell, I'd go one step further and eat the hell out of it. She'll be none the wiser and she's caused you enough annoyance that you deserve a nice salmon feast. Enjoy!
erikaj - Sep 23, 2014 4:31:05 pm PDT #13394 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
If it's something you like, enjoy.
Hil R. - Sep 23, 2014 6:04:31 pm PDT #13395 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I went out and was social! And my team won trivia! (Things where I was the one who got the answer included Hugo Boss, the Book of Mormon, the Rainier Tower, and Honey Boo Boo.)
Vortex - Sep 23, 2014 8:06:40 pm PDT #13396 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
OTOH, sending her a note is engaging her. OTOH, she can't claim "well, you accepted it, so I thought that everything was okay".
Only other option is returning to her when she's not home.
Vortex - Sep 23, 2014 8:06:41 pm PDT #13397 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
OTOH, sending her a note is engaging her. OTOH, she can't claim "well, you accepted it, so I thought that everything was okay".
Only other option is returning to her when she's not home.