I do not have the energy to spend trying to convince people I'm okay today. I'm also trying to find the spoons to go to Trader Joe's. The pouring rain isn't helping.
You know, it's funny. We went to war never looking to come back, but it's the real world I couldn't survive.
Tracy ,'The Message'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
sj - Jun 13, 2014 6:26:34 am PDT #11329 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Laura - Jun 13, 2014 6:32:47 am PDT #11330 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
It is okay not to be okay. Shoving spoons through the intertubes.
Maria - Jun 13, 2014 8:07:09 am PDT #11331 of 30002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
sj, I'm so sorry. I hope for the best possible outcome, and the strength to deal with it. Much love to you and TCG.
And as you kind people (including you, sj) have told me countless times, it's OK to not be OK. It's a valid a feeling as any other.
sj - Jun 13, 2014 8:17:36 am PDT #11332 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I know it is fine to not be okay right now, but I still feel people are expecting me to reassure them that I'm fine.
SuziQ - Jun 13, 2014 8:26:03 am PDT #11333 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Screw them sj. You just need to deal with you and TCG. And even with that, mostly YOU. Other people just need to be supportive and if they aren't, then they need to back off for a while.
Laura - Jun 13, 2014 8:27:26 am PDT #11334 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
When my mom feels like crap but doesn't want to discuss it she always responds "I'm just peachy dewy" to our inquires of how she is feeling. At this point we know it means to lay off. You don't need the pressure of having to be okay for anyone else.
Feel what you feel and perhaps answer that you WILL BE fine and leave it future tense if you don't want to discuss it further.
Maria - Jun 13, 2014 8:28:39 am PDT #11335 of 30002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
What Suzi and Laura said. I'm sorry if I added to it.
meara - Jun 13, 2014 8:34:39 am PDT #11336 of 30002
I know it is fine to not be okay right now, but I still feel people are expecting me to reassure them that I'm fine.
Fuck them and their expectations. Not your problem! (...life would be easier if we could all manage that, eh?)
sj - Jun 13, 2014 8:37:45 am PDT #11337 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I'm sorry if I added to it.
What? No, absolutely not.
We're still doing Father's Day at our house. I really don't want to, but TCG does. I did however reschedule our theatre tickets for tomorrow to a couple of weeks from now because I don't have enough spoons for that too.
SuziQ - Jun 13, 2014 8:42:29 am PDT #11338 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Laura - I've used the "will be" when I didn't have the spoons. If people pressed, they usually ended up with a teary Suzi and quickly learned to just leave it be.