sj, some people are so callous. I'm sorry you have to deal with that.
Harrow: You didn't have to wound that man. Mal: Yeah, I know, it was just funny.
'Shindig'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
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Zenkitty - Jun 12, 2014 6:11:04 pm PDT #11322 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
JZ - Jun 12, 2014 6:23:52 pm PDT #11323 of 30002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
I'm so very sorry, sj. All my love and prayers to you and TCG and the little one, whatever the outcome, and, God, how completely awful about the back-and-forth with the NP and your doctor and how badly she mishandled communication with you.
I will happily beat up for you any and all thoughtless people who warrant it; just point me in the right direction.
Ginger - Jun 12, 2014 7:09:48 pm PDT #11324 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
All good thoughts to you and TCG, sj.
erikaj - Jun 12, 2014 7:14:38 pm PDT #11325 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
On one hand I get it, much like when people wish for the 10 fingers and toes, or "as long as it's healthy," But, yes, that shit makes me uncomfortable too. And I once caught hell from the outlawa because they were worried that baby M wasn't doing as they expected and I said "Well, maybe she has a disability.(She's fine.) But I wasn't aware that what they heard was that she wasn't a keeper and they might have to throw her back. They *freaked* pf course there is a lot of disability in my family and...less visible ones in theirs. But they had, like, ten grandkids, although that might have been an insensitive time to play the odds, hindsight tells me.
erikaj - Jun 12, 2014 7:19:27 pm PDT #11326 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
But, you know, my parents were right to worry. So my default is never "Don't be ridiculous.(and early intervention could be important) It happens. Am I recruiting? Fuck no. But there are as many things I love about life as I hate.
Calli - Jun 13, 2014 2:37:44 am PDT #11327 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
Can someone go beat up the people who keep telling me that it is better to find out now that there is something wrong? I find it a highly insensitive thing to say to someone with a disability.
I've never wished for Krav skills so much before in my life. Jehoshaphat.
Liese S. - Jun 13, 2014 5:46:58 am PDT #11328 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
Oh, sj, so much! Thinking about you as you walk through this.
sj - Jun 13, 2014 6:26:34 am PDT #11329 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I do not have the energy to spend trying to convince people I'm okay today. I'm also trying to find the spoons to go to Trader Joe's. The pouring rain isn't helping.
Laura - Jun 13, 2014 6:32:47 am PDT #11330 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
It is okay not to be okay. Shoving spoons through the intertubes.
Maria - Jun 13, 2014 8:07:09 am PDT #11331 of 30002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
sj, I'm so sorry. I hope for the best possible outcome, and the strength to deal with it. Much love to you and TCG.
And as you kind people (including you, sj) have told me countless times, it's OK to not be OK. It's a valid a feeling as any other.