Well, look at you. All dressed up in big sister's clothes.

Faith ,'End of Days'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


lisah - Oct 10, 2011 5:59:43 pm PDT #1198 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

If you make your hand into an o shape and hit your forehead than you are signing asshole.

Huh, it was similar to that but there was definitely a touching of the ass involved. We were all pretty tipsy by that point in the evening though.


Kat - Oct 10, 2011 6:02:47 pm PDT #1199 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I don't know if you can think about what you need to do, ita, beyond just doing it. Going moment to moment because the big picture is too big and scary is sometimes the only way to make it through. The only way I've made it through some of the worst medical shit is to remember that this moment and then this moment and then this moment etc are all I need to handle.

I don't have any skill at all in dealing with a sick parent, so grain of salt the advice.


Amy - Oct 10, 2011 6:02:50 pm PDT #1200 of 30001
Because books.

I didn't even want to walk to the bathroom at 39 weeks. More power to the marathoner, man.

I don't really want to deal right now, not even a little.

Hang in there, lady. Deep breaths.


lisah - Oct 10, 2011 6:03:38 pm PDT #1201 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

I don't know what to do.

You don't need to know. Sometimes you just have to keep moving forward. I'm glad you are able to go home.

And, really, you can flip out. It's some scary shit!


Kat - Oct 10, 2011 6:03:53 pm PDT #1202 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

It's funny that the signing times dvds don't teach you mean things, like dumb or idiot. I should go look those up.

Grace won a sportsmanship award for soccer. Um? really? She pukes when she gets mad and doesn't want to play? That does not seem like good sportsmanship.


sarameg - Oct 10, 2011 6:05:24 pm PDT #1203 of 30001

Oh, ita. Much love for you. I'd even hug you if in proximity. Or encourage you to flip out on me.


sarameg - Oct 10, 2011 6:06:45 pm PDT #1204 of 30001

Sometimes, you just are. In the moment, no matter how bad it is.


le nubian - Oct 10, 2011 6:10:17 pm PDT #1205 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

hang in there ita.

I think it might be time (after you send the email) to take a shower and flip the fuck out there. don't hold it in and the beautiful thing about breaking down in the shower is that there is a finite amount of hot water. 15 minutes and my time is UP.


SuziQ - Oct 10, 2011 6:13:14 pm PDT #1206 of 30001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

it's ! if just putting one foot in front of the other is the most you can do, that is fine. It is ok to be at a loss. If work helps to distract you, great. If not, do nothing or just the bare minimum.


bon bon - Oct 10, 2011 6:21:48 pm PDT #1207 of 30001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

When are you leaving, ita? Want to go out for gimlets?