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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 31, 2012 11:55:17 am PST #6600 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Yeah, God knows I wish I could sell our house cheap, but unfortunately, I need to cover the note. I also wish we could rent that mofo.


Toddson - Jan 31, 2012 12:00:09 pm PST #6601 of 30001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

A friend of mine has a house she bought before her marriage and, rather than sell it in a down market, was renting it out to someone she knew and had dealt well with in the past. Well, years passed and the renter became the neighborhood's crazy cat lady - she had more cats than her lease allowed and had taken to feeding and providing shelter for the local feral cats (she built little shelters outside). The neighbors complained to my friend and to the homeowners' association, she's been threatened with fines and possibly a lien on the house. My friend's going to have to have the house professionally cleaned, replace the carpets, and probably have someone deal with the outside. So ... renting has its downside as well.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 31, 2012 12:06:17 pm PST #6602 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Yeah, I know that story too. Nightmare tenants AND underwater mortgage. Living the muthafuckin American dream, I tell you what.


sj - Jan 31, 2012 1:20:02 pm PST #6603 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I do understand if they are underwater and can't come any lower, but if that is the case, I don't think they'll be able to sell at all right now.


smonster - Jan 31, 2012 1:45:40 pm PST #6604 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Sean, glad it wasn't too big a deal.

Debet, yay for good news! Glad to hear it.

Drama Llama has apparently been gunning for me since day one; my crew thinks that it's because I make $5K more a year than she does, because she bitches about that pretty publicly. Other exciting things I learned today

  • she has taken off early to go drink (and announced it)
  • she sits on her ass most of the day (knew that, actually)
  • she's told the current crop of volunteers that they suck and will never be as good as the ones who just left
  • she may be misusing petty cash
  • she may be submitting anonymous complaints about me to the director on almost a daily basis
  • she vents abut her boss to volunteers
  • she takes even neutral comments and makes them negative and spreads rumors

I am just agog and aghast at her vituperativeness and unprofessionality. I mean, unprofessional doesn't even start to describe it. What a backstabbing bitch. I had NO idea whatsoever that she was constantly telling people that I'm incompetent.

If she doesn't get fired, I am going to have to confront her, because apparently the only language she understands is bitchese.

Also, I just had to tell PB that I can't give him a reference.

Factor all that in with waking up at 3:30 and dozing with nightmares until the alarm went off? It's gonna be an early night.


askye - Jan 31, 2012 1:51:28 pm PST #6605 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

smonster that really really sucks.

I'm always surprised at the level of bitchiness and deceitfulness people will get up to.


smonster - Jan 31, 2012 2:03:29 pm PST #6606 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

JESUS GOD. PB just asked why. ISTG, there's enough clueless in that kid to make Cher Horowitz cry her waterproof mascara off. I told him the truth: that I liked him and thought he had potential, but to give him a reference would put my professional reputation on the line and I can't vouch for him as a worker. My supvr is going to call him tomorrow.


askye - Jan 31, 2012 2:15:48 pm PST #6607 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

Some people are really clueless. When I worked at the airport a temp employee was caught stealing, arrested, and escorted off the premises in handcuffs. There was a sting operation to catch him in the act even!

He was fired from the temp agency (rightly so) and came back and asked my supervisor for his job back! And then got mad when she wouldn't hire him back. He (we think) even stole from some TSA employees.


WindSparrow - Jan 31, 2012 2:22:46 pm PST #6608 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Oh, smonster - May you and your organization be protected from Drama Llama's negative energy - if that means she herself can be separated from that negative energy and come to work, excellent. But if she cannot be separated from it, then may she be released to her highest path for the healing that she needs.

Sean, your news is lovely and exciting. Congratulations!

Debet, I don't think I managed to say anything when you posted about your mom, but I did send vibes, and I'm so glad there's good news.


amyth - Jan 31, 2012 2:22:46 pm PST #6609 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

OK, Drama Llama needs to be done away with. She's actually evil. It's time to speak Latin in front of the books.

PB: so clueless it's actually sad.