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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 31, 2012 12:06:17 pm PST #6602 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Yeah, I know that story too. Nightmare tenants AND underwater mortgage. Living the muthafuckin American dream, I tell you what.


sj - Jan 31, 2012 1:20:02 pm PST #6603 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I do understand if they are underwater and can't come any lower, but if that is the case, I don't think they'll be able to sell at all right now.


smonster - Jan 31, 2012 1:45:40 pm PST #6604 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Sean, glad it wasn't too big a deal.

Debet, yay for good news! Glad to hear it.

Drama Llama has apparently been gunning for me since day one; my crew thinks that it's because I make $5K more a year than she does, because she bitches about that pretty publicly. Other exciting things I learned today

  • she has taken off early to go drink (and announced it)
  • she sits on her ass most of the day (knew that, actually)
  • she's told the current crop of volunteers that they suck and will never be as good as the ones who just left
  • she may be misusing petty cash
  • she may be submitting anonymous complaints about me to the director on almost a daily basis
  • she vents abut her boss to volunteers
  • she takes even neutral comments and makes them negative and spreads rumors

I am just agog and aghast at her vituperativeness and unprofessionality. I mean, unprofessional doesn't even start to describe it. What a backstabbing bitch. I had NO idea whatsoever that she was constantly telling people that I'm incompetent.

If she doesn't get fired, I am going to have to confront her, because apparently the only language she understands is bitchese.

Also, I just had to tell PB that I can't give him a reference.

Factor all that in with waking up at 3:30 and dozing with nightmares until the alarm went off? It's gonna be an early night.


askye - Jan 31, 2012 1:51:28 pm PST #6605 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

smonster that really really sucks.

I'm always surprised at the level of bitchiness and deceitfulness people will get up to.


smonster - Jan 31, 2012 2:03:29 pm PST #6606 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

JESUS GOD. PB just asked why. ISTG, there's enough clueless in that kid to make Cher Horowitz cry her waterproof mascara off. I told him the truth: that I liked him and thought he had potential, but to give him a reference would put my professional reputation on the line and I can't vouch for him as a worker. My supvr is going to call him tomorrow.


askye - Jan 31, 2012 2:15:48 pm PST #6607 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

Some people are really clueless. When I worked at the airport a temp employee was caught stealing, arrested, and escorted off the premises in handcuffs. There was a sting operation to catch him in the act even!

He was fired from the temp agency (rightly so) and came back and asked my supervisor for his job back! And then got mad when she wouldn't hire him back. He (we think) even stole from some TSA employees.


WindSparrow - Jan 31, 2012 2:22:46 pm PST #6608 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Oh, smonster - May you and your organization be protected from Drama Llama's negative energy - if that means she herself can be separated from that negative energy and come to work, excellent. But if she cannot be separated from it, then may she be released to her highest path for the healing that she needs.

Sean, your news is lovely and exciting. Congratulations!

Debet, I don't think I managed to say anything when you posted about your mom, but I did send vibes, and I'm so glad there's good news.


amyth - Jan 31, 2012 2:22:46 pm PST #6609 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

OK, Drama Llama needs to be done away with. She's actually evil. It's time to speak Latin in front of the books.

PB: so clueless it's actually sad.


§ ita § - Jan 31, 2012 2:23:11 pm PST #6610 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

We had an employee that I recommended against hiring because she was obviously too structured for our (haphazard at best) work environment. Not because I thought she wasn't technically competent or anything, but when you show up to your interview with a folder with your resume in colour and colour copies of your certifications, it's not our company you really wanted to work for.

I tried to stress that in my interview with her, but she took the job anyway. She quit a couple months later, much like I expected, but she was back on the phone with HR, angry, asking why we hadn't backed up her lie about how long she'd worked for us.

What could we possibly owe her in that situation?

But my favourite was the second PM on my big initial project at my current job--saying, as he left, that he'd be back, circumventing my boss and going to the CIO to keep a position there. How could you possibly want to work in those circumstances? Whose pride wraps all the way around like that and comes up on the side with all the shame attached?


Vortex - Jan 31, 2012 2:33:18 pm PST #6611 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

JESUS GOD. PB just asked why.

Oh, I know. I had a guy that I fired list me as a reference. Part of the issue was his maturity, and it was several years later. Luckily, it was an old email address that I just happened to check. There was an auto message saying I didn't work there and to email a different address. I didn't get anything to the new address, so I just left it alone, because he was a good kid, but I couldn't recommend him based on what I knew.