Angel: You know, I killed my actual dad. It was one of the first things I did when I became a vampire. Wesley: I hardly see how that's the same situation. Angel: Yeah. I didn't really think that one through.

'Lineage'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Deena - Dec 15, 2011 5:22:55 am PST #4253 of 30001
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

I know! She "just bumped it" on a door. I don't know how a cello comes apart from a bump!


smonster - Dec 15, 2011 5:23:23 am PST #4254 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Perhaps - Your grade is correct, do the math, oh that's right, you can't do the math, hence your sucky grade.

Laura wins.

Oh, the tattoos. It'll happen, though probably not how he thinks.


smonster - Dec 15, 2011 5:25:01 am PST #4255 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Oh, and HI DEENA!!! It's so nice to have you pop in now and again, and I'm so glad you're feeling a bit better.


Laura - Dec 15, 2011 5:26:24 am PST #4256 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Have fun at the concert tonight! It sounds like a good day.


Deena - Dec 15, 2011 5:38:05 am PST #4257 of 30001
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Thanks, guys! I'm listening to Christmas music on Pandora. Greg's home until noon, but he's napping. It will be my turn when he gets up.


ChiKat - Dec 15, 2011 5:40:55 am PST #4258 of 30001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Oh, Kara....I hope the 1/2 size one works well for her! I always wanted to learn to play the cello. Have a great time at the concert!


Polter-Cow - Dec 15, 2011 5:45:22 am PST #4259 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

why didn't you ask her out before? You've been crushing on her for 20 months? Why not ask her out 18 months ago?

Because I don't ask girls out? Because she's in my theatre crowd and I see her all the time and I didn't want things to be awkward if/when she said no? Because everything is marriage marriage white devils so I had to evaluate how much I liked her and if it was worth it? Because my default assumption is that women don't like me and I am bothering them? I've basically given up at this point.

(I'm going to be busy all day, so if I don't respond, it's not a flounce.)


ChiKat - Dec 15, 2011 5:56:05 am PST #4260 of 30001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Because my default assumption is that women don't like me and I am bothering them?

I think this is where you might need to adjust your thinking. If you don't try, I can guarantee it won't happen. If you try, the possibility is always there. The possibility for getting hurt or rejected is also there. So, you need to ask yourself, would you rather for sure not have a girlfriend and not risk getting hurt or take the chance of having a girlfriend and accept the risks that come with it. Honestly, either answer is fine. It's just determining what you want and what you're willing to risk or give up.


Burrell - Dec 15, 2011 6:09:31 am PST #4261 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Oh Laura, I'm sorry to hear that the path to adulthood has been such a slog for him, but your ability to mother him without smothering him is inspiring.

He just doesn't get it and totally spins all his failures as other people's issues.

Ugh that's a hard one. I have a few family members who do that and it's so frustrating to watch. It's not even the being wrong part that upsets me, it's the fact that without taking personal responsibility for their own choices and actions, there's no way to change what they've been doing and get to a place that makes them happier.


Nora Deirdre - Dec 15, 2011 6:18:42 am PST #4262 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

t points upward to ChiKat