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Snyder ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Jan 30, 2013 2:06:12 pm PST #25670 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Oh, quester. What a tough situation you are in.


Pix - Jan 30, 2013 2:12:28 pm PST #25671 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.

Quester, I can afford to give you (not lend you) $50 so you at least can get some groceries. Do you have a Paypal? And no thanks necessary if you take me up on it--this is a pay it forward thing. I can afford to help you right now, and others helped me when I needed it.

It doesn't solve the bigger problem, of course. I'm sorry it's so stressful.


quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:29:06 pm PST #25672 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

I'm almost too choked up to answer, Pix. Yes, I do have a PayPal account. What info do you need. I've never had anyone send me money that way before.


JZ - Jan 30, 2013 2:30:32 pm PST #25673 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Oh, quester. My gut is knotted up on your behalf. BTDT and it's hell (and we're nowhere near out yet, but we have at least managed to level off instead of falling deeper).


Sparky1 - Jan 30, 2013 2:31:18 pm PST #25674 of 30001
Librarian Warlord

quester, is your email address in your profile the one you use for PayPal?


quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:32:46 pm PST #25675 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

No it's tied to an older one.should I just list it here or do you want me to email it?


Sparky1 - Jan 30, 2013 2:35:25 pm PST #25676 of 30001
Librarian Warlord

Either is fine, quester.


quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:35:52 pm PST #25677 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

It's arsheller@yahoo.com


meara - Jan 30, 2013 2:38:40 pm PST #25678 of 30001

quester, I know the government has made it nigh-impossible to get any sort of welfare as a single adult, but have you applied for food stamps? It might help.


Sparky1 - Jan 30, 2013 2:43:16 pm PST #25679 of 30001
Librarian Warlord

quester, my unsolicited advice is to try and find a reputable credit counselor -- they do exist -- and s/he can take on some of the burden by doing some of your thinking for you for how to get out from under this.