Man, just ascend already.

Willow ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:32:46 pm PST #25675 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

No it's tied to an older one.should I just list it here or do you want me to email it?


Sparky1 - Jan 30, 2013 2:35:25 pm PST #25676 of 30001
Librarian Warlord

Either is fine, quester.


quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:35:52 pm PST #25677 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

It's arsheller@yahoo.com


meara - Jan 30, 2013 2:38:40 pm PST #25678 of 30001

quester, I know the government has made it nigh-impossible to get any sort of welfare as a single adult, but have you applied for food stamps? It might help.


Sparky1 - Jan 30, 2013 2:43:16 pm PST #25679 of 30001
Librarian Warlord

quester, my unsolicited advice is to try and find a reputable credit counselor -- they do exist -- and s/he can take on some of the burden by doing some of your thinking for you for how to get out from under this.


Pix - Jan 30, 2013 2:43:44 pm PST #25680 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.

Insent Quester. Hang in there.

Also, I agree with the advice about a credit counselor. You need a road out.


quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:45:08 pm PST #25681 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

No, meara I haven't looked into it, I've just been going along hoping a temp job turns into a real one so I can at least make plans to deal with the debt.

I guess I've been in denial. I'm kind of stupid when it comes to numbers, especially money. I don't think I'm overspending, but then I get blind-sided by something.


quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:47:32 pm PST #25682 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

I've been through this before, so I thought I was smarter than this.

One thing you need to reduce payments is a steady income, which means a real job, not even a long term temp job, because it could end any time.

It's been 4 years and I'm still nowhere. I never thought it would be this hard but, it just keeps getting harder...


quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:51:40 pm PST #25683 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

You guys are seriously making me weep with gratitude... I can't even tell you how much your generosity means to me.

I promise not to squander the help. You guys are so wonderful...


javachik - Jan 30, 2013 2:53:04 pm PST #25684 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Quester, spend at least a little bit of it on a treat of some sort.