Oh, quester. My gut is knotted up on your behalf. BTDT and it's hell (and we're nowhere near out yet, but we have at least managed to level off instead of falling deeper).
A ghost? What's the deal? Is every frat on this campus haunted? And if so, why do people keep coming to these parties, cause it's not the snacks.
Xander ,'Dirty Girls'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
JZ - Jan 30, 2013 2:30:32 pm PST #25673 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
Sparky1 - Jan 30, 2013 2:31:18 pm PST #25674 of 30001
Librarian Warlord
quester, is your email address in your profile the one you use for PayPal?
quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:32:46 pm PST #25675 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
No it's tied to an older one.should I just list it here or do you want me to email it?
Sparky1 - Jan 30, 2013 2:35:25 pm PST #25676 of 30001
Librarian Warlord
Either is fine, quester.
quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:35:52 pm PST #25677 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
It's arsheller@yahoo.com
meara - Jan 30, 2013 2:38:40 pm PST #25678 of 30001
quester, I know the government has made it nigh-impossible to get any sort of welfare as a single adult, but have you applied for food stamps? It might help.
Sparky1 - Jan 30, 2013 2:43:16 pm PST #25679 of 30001
Librarian Warlord
quester, my unsolicited advice is to try and find a reputable credit counselor -- they do exist -- and s/he can take on some of the burden by doing some of your thinking for you for how to get out from under this.
Pix - Jan 30, 2013 2:43:44 pm PST #25680 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.
Insent Quester. Hang in there.
Also, I agree with the advice about a credit counselor. You need a road out.
quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:45:08 pm PST #25681 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
No, meara I haven't looked into it, I've just been going along hoping a temp job turns into a real one so I can at least make plans to deal with the debt.
I guess I've been in denial. I'm kind of stupid when it comes to numbers, especially money. I don't think I'm overspending, but then I get blind-sided by something.
quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:47:32 pm PST #25682 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
I've been through this before, so I thought I was smarter than this.
One thing you need to reduce payments is a steady income, which means a real job, not even a long term temp job, because it could end any time.
It's been 4 years and I'm still nowhere. I never thought it would be this hard but, it just keeps getting harder...