Either is fine, quester.
Yeah. He's my hero.
Mal ,'The Train Job'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Sparky1 - Jan 30, 2013 2:35:25 pm PST #25676 of 30001
Librarian Warlord
quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:35:52 pm PST #25677 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
It's arsheller@yahoo.com
meara - Jan 30, 2013 2:38:40 pm PST #25678 of 30001
quester, I know the government has made it nigh-impossible to get any sort of welfare as a single adult, but have you applied for food stamps? It might help.
Sparky1 - Jan 30, 2013 2:43:16 pm PST #25679 of 30001
Librarian Warlord
quester, my unsolicited advice is to try and find a reputable credit counselor -- they do exist -- and s/he can take on some of the burden by doing some of your thinking for you for how to get out from under this.
Pix - Jan 30, 2013 2:43:44 pm PST #25680 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.
Insent Quester. Hang in there.
Also, I agree with the advice about a credit counselor. You need a road out.
quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:45:08 pm PST #25681 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
No, meara I haven't looked into it, I've just been going along hoping a temp job turns into a real one so I can at least make plans to deal with the debt.
I guess I've been in denial. I'm kind of stupid when it comes to numbers, especially money. I don't think I'm overspending, but then I get blind-sided by something.
quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:47:32 pm PST #25682 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
I've been through this before, so I thought I was smarter than this.
One thing you need to reduce payments is a steady income, which means a real job, not even a long term temp job, because it could end any time.
It's been 4 years and I'm still nowhere. I never thought it would be this hard but, it just keeps getting harder...
quester - Jan 30, 2013 2:51:40 pm PST #25683 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
You guys are seriously making me weep with gratitude... I can't even tell you how much your generosity means to me.
I promise not to squander the help. You guys are so wonderful...
javachik - Jan 30, 2013 2:53:04 pm PST #25684 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.
Quester, spend at least a little bit of it on a treat of some sort.
Pix - Jan 30, 2013 2:53:55 pm PST #25685 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.
We help each other. It's what we do.